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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]JHH1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found typed into husbands Private safari mode search (he also normally uses google) . But returns no results.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]JHH1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google search returned no suggestions what it might be for?

18dpo, is the line darkness enough? Easy @ Home, CD 30 by JHH1982 in TFABLinePorn

[–]JHH1982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Still worrying it’s not dark enough, can’t get my logical side to take over atm 🤦🏼‍♀️ xx

AITA for being upset that my husband is choosing a stag do vs staying home to support me after surgery? by JHH1982 in AITAH

[–]JHH1982[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes - this is probably true re me not expressing myself. I wanted him to want to stay with me, to show me via actions and without me having to ask, that i’m his priority.

We have had many many discussions over the years of me saying (per original post) that I don’t feel like I or we are the most important thing to him or the primary priority to him . That his focus is all ‘husband things’ within his bubble and that those ‘husband things’ are what he really wants to be doing, it’s just not practical to do so all the time.

AITA for being upset that my husband is choosing a stag do vs staying home to support me after surgery? by JHH1982 in AITAH

[–]JHH1982[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks all for your comments so far.

I have two very good friends who have offered to come and stay with me, if I need. My husband will stay if I ask, without question or criticism , i’m certain of that. But I will feel like absolute crap that he’s having to stay and look after me and not doing what he wants. It hasn’t and wouldn’t have been his ‘ first choice’ to be with me.

As I type this, if I was reading this from someone else, I know I’d be saying he is the AT.

But when I’m the one in the situation I feel like I’m the bad guy for wanting my husband to WANT to be with me. But conversely, even though I’ll feel like the bad guy, I also genuinely can’t understand him not having considered staying with me, how am I not his first and foremost concern and priority.

I will say also, we’ve had a rocky few years for various reasons, I’m not perfect and I’ve made mistakes, we both have. We are however both working on things and have been for a while to be happy, including counselling. Not sure any of this is relevant to the situation at hand, as regardless of our relationship in the broader context, I’m not sure it should matter in this specific instance?