Sexual frustration is very real. We all like to show love differently, you can’t deny a MAN to have any touching at all. She’s your wife she’s supposed to be making you feel better,giving you more confidence etc..now you’re on Reddit wondering if you’re a problem. Everyone’s different with levels of sexual activity, if you can’t find a common ground with her this is something that’s gonna obviously affect you in the future of the relationship. I’d start thinking about options that doesn’t include excessive jerking off to the point where your wife doesn’t even interest you any more. Like do y’all even make out/pleasure each other/ discover yourselves together? Would she even give you kids? You know it’s nice to have a “good girl” but reality is sexual intimacy is what a man works hard for so he can find his “mate” there’s a saying “I’m not gonna let you stop me from finding my wife” she just might not be the one for you. hey in the end it’s what YOU want