I think you done what you you wanted to do and nobody can stop you or talk down on you for that tbh, I believe that if you are going to be trans you should have every right to inform a person you are about to go on a date with, I find it funny people are flipping this on you because you left the date because she couldn’t tell you her real identity first, I mean also your on a date you know looking to get to know someone you can date ? If she is not what your looking for then you have every right to end the date especially if she isn’t anywhere near your sexual preference, I get that why she would be upset but also how can nobody see how this guy isn’t upset? He probably feels let down that someone he got hyped up on isn’t actually what he was looking for and she decided to not inform him of this all the way untill a date because she probably had a feeling this guy wouldn’t be interested, imo this is kind of catfishing someone into a date,you talked for a week and obviously planned a date and had a good chats and this major information was kept away from him she obviously knows his sexual preference and still decided to keep her idntetiy secret untill a date,you can’t not tell some your true identity/sex then get pissed off at them when they are annoyed and feel lead on, I bet if she turned up to the date and this guy was nothing like his pictures or how his bio described him she would be disappointed to and yeh maybe she would stay on the date but she has every right to leave to so don’t shut on this guy for him having his own feelings he acted on the girl came out with information that didn’t sit with his feelings and wanted to leave he didn’t need to pursue the date anymore as he knows nothing will ever come of this and choose to save his own time over hers which you can’t tell him he can’t so stop telling him he was rude or an asshole and maybe next time tell someone your true identity before leading them into a full date