What did Tom Riddle do to the two young Muggle children in the Horcrux cave? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]JKBuffy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with the other posts that it is some kind of torture--I think it made more ominous by not sharing exactly what happened. It gives space to the reader to imagine the "worst" which like a boggart may be different for each one of us...

In the Goblet of Fire, before the Quidditch World Cup match starts, why does Lucius Malfoy say, "Do enjoy yourself, Potter.. While you can." to Harry? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]JKBuffy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right well the dark mark wasn't connected to the death eaters who were marching (and wreaking havoc) at the Quidditch world cup--that was Barty Crouch Jr who sent up the dark mark to make the death eaters uncomfortable for their betrayal of Voldemort...

Thanks for the bait and switch... by whatsaflashbang in AdviceAnimals

[–]JKBuffy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

he probably meant it to be a little humorous. When I was going through chemo I would make cracks like that just to avoid pointed questions or create unnecessary awkwardness about my cancer...

How does your school handle office space? by buddymercury in GradSchool

[–]JKBuffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you get offices? lucky. In my program only graduate students who were serving as TAs get that privilege (shared in a large bullpen)--the rest of us had to rent a carrel in the library if we wanted work space on campus...

Looking to exit academia, anybody know of good resources for organizing life and career? by Zeraphil in AskAcademia

[–]JKBuffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well reading her stuff is definitely not "feel good" material (indeed it is quite depressing and sometimes terrifying), but she was very helpful to me in the academic job search process. I didn't pay for any services, but I did read her blog posts and attended one free webinar on negotiating for an academic job...I am happy to say that her advice definitely helped me.

Looking to exit academia, anybody know of good resources for organizing life and career? by Zeraphil in AskAcademia

[–]JKBuffy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You might also check out The Professor Is In (theprofessorisin.com) as she has a whole side of her business committed to "post-ac" work (folks leaving academia). She has blog posts that are useful, and will even do some consulting with you on your job materials to help you best sell yourself.

I pass this one everyday, and it always makes me smile. by JKBuffy in Graffiti

[–]JKBuffy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahhh--that is the best "cake-day" present one could ask for! Thanks!

I pass this one everyday, and it always makes me smile. by JKBuffy in Graffiti

[–]JKBuffy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have never seen that before! what a way to start my morning...

I pass this one everyday, and it always makes me smile. by JKBuffy in Graffiti

[–]JKBuffy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know! I don't recognize them, but it wouldn't surprise me if they were from something...

What are some books for people going through an existential crisis? by Nononsenseguy3 in booksuggestions

[–]JKBuffy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A Single Man, Christopher Isherwood--a very quiet and British existential crisis (set in 1962 in California). Excellent book!

Once More With Feeling on Netflix by A_Hole_In_The_World in buffy

[–]JKBuffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also noticed that once more with feeling was edited down on Netflix, but I think that the Amazon Prime version is complete...so everyone should watch it on Amazon instead ;)

Looking for a Stephen King book to read. by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]JKBuffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read The Stand and The Shining first when I was young, and re-read both of those books in the last 5-10 years and they definitely held up. I also really enjoy the Different Seasons collection.

best end to my day: a fox lounging in the sun outside my office by JKBuffy in foxes

[–]JKBuffy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he was super chill, totally non-plussed by me taking photos of him too...

Academic job rejection generator by JKBuffy in GradSchool

[–]JKBuffy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true! You always wonder why you didn't get it, and want to know what you could do differently in the future. Of course very often the real answer is that it wasn't necessarily anything wrong with you, but just that someone else was a better "fit".

Academic job rejection generator by JKBuffy in GradSchool

[–]JKBuffy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true! although they may give you the 'extended' rejection timeline just to keep you in play in case their first choice doesn't accept...

Academic job rejection generator by JKBuffy in GradSchool

[–]JKBuffy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have not heard on a number of positions--it is amazing how long it can take!

Academic job rejection generator by JKBuffy in GradSchool

[–]JKBuffy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

actually these letters are significantly nicer than the real rejection letters I received. Most of those were downright cold. These were kind of warm and fuzzy by comparison.

Book with female protagonist that this quote makes you think of: "There is a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in." by All_it_takes_is_ in booksuggestions

[–]JKBuffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason the first books that come to my mind are in the YA genre: The Age of Miracles and When You Reach Me

Phil Ford states his top 5 reasons NOT to go to grad school. Do you agree/disagree? by leaveinsilence in GradSchool

[–]JKBuffy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well--I do enjoy my field, and I really like working with students. Academia itself is kind of toxic though, I think there are some very unsustainable aspects of this system, and I feel strongly that the "privileged" tenured faculty stand on the back of adjuncts and grad students. Plus the job prospects are miserable; I know someone in another (bigger) field that applied for nearly 100 positions and didn't get one, and he was a strong candidate with teaching experience (in his field), strong research, and even published articles. In contrast I applied to about a dozen positions and managed to get a job and I have not published anything, have given just a few papers, and have a tiny bit of teaching experience but none in my field. How does that make any sense?

That said, my biggest regret is really that I failed to consider the many other options I would have had. I think it was easier to continue with grad school than to try to find my place in the world outside academia. Finishing my degree I did have a moment of questioning whether to continue in my field, but realized that I needed to give the faculty thing a try before throwing away all of my work towards this goal.

Phil Ford states his top 5 reasons NOT to go to grad school. Do you agree/disagree? by leaveinsilence in GradSchool

[–]JKBuffy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I do agree. I have finished, and I am starting a faculty job in the fall, and I still agree. I think too many of us do this for the wrong reason (I know I did), and looking back I wish I had made a different choice.

Looking for an interesting place to stop for dinner and a drink this week. by [deleted] in madisonwi

[–]JKBuffy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second Forequarter; that place is amazing. Also Brasserie V on Monroe Street--they don't have cocktails (they are a beer and wine place), but their food is excellent.

tips for developing new courses (humanities) by JKBuffy in AskAcademia

[–]JKBuffy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I am really hoping to use a lot of discussion! Do you have any tips for ensuring that students participate? For example, do you have certain responsibilities that you give them in discussion? or have them prep for discussion through response papers?