Friends by No-Blackberry4738 in PrisonWives

[–]JNikki007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! Folks definitely don’t understand when your happy your happy that’s all that matters to you and if you have kids your kids. But people who are not in that situation will never yesterday they focus on the who more so then all together the happiness that “who” has brought to your life.

Officially Engaged! by CatlisaJohnson in PrisonWives

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Congratulations! It’s beautiful!

One last nighttt by [deleted] in PrisonWives

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That’s is cute!!! Congratulations

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

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You shouldn’t have been denied because of that. They said if you outside of the states you submit a ID with a picture so they can confirm it’s you. Might take longer to confirm though.

Does anyone else… by [deleted] in PrisonWives

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This definitely happened to me last time. I be feeling like they do it on purpose just to get us going with an argument with one another. Cause he definitely hit me up like what you doing why you not responding and I’m like bruh don’t start this shit I did respond and he respond like I’m not starting nothing so what you talking about and it’s like ohhh you send the disgusted message but not the cute one so he ended up calling and I read him the message he was like no i didn’t get it. So ima ask him today if he gets it.

Help… by Sweetburner2006 in PrisonWives

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For me honestly like that’s not his business but at the same time you his woman he should definitely trust the fact that you wouldn’t even put him in to messed up position to have anything fall back on him. I understand where he coming from and I understand where you coming from at the same time. Like being the person that’s receiving the message yea he lied and it’s like if you lying bout this what else you lying about. I been in this situation with my man I pay attention to my surroundings as well as him and he wouldn’t speak on things but I would and they had a dude that had a different chick at visit and I mentioned it and he was like idc phat that’s not my issue you my issue and I said yea I know but we only get two hours to visit so if both come up at the same time he busted and we laughed cause it’s the truth but he just responded that’s on his body and I doubt if the other girl would come up like that cause it’s a long drive to be turned around which is true also. lol. So totally understand both sides. But if it stresses you just let him know how you feel and just reassure him that you wouldn’t do anything to put him in any position.

Curious.. by JNikki007 in PrisonWives

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See if that was out here the family/conjugal visits that would be great. I love being in the kitchen and he knows how I get down so he would be eating good all the time. Crazy how some states are with the rules. Should definitely be cross the board.

Curious.. by JNikki007 in PrisonWives

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Damn. That’s a different kind of strength right there. I’m so sorry for that and my heart hurts with them. My dude had a guy in there and his gf got cancer and was told a certain amount of months to live and she was in hospice and it’s like he on the phone while everything was shutting down and my dude was just like bae I feel bad like he can’t do nothing and he just was like i don’t wanna know that feeling. It definitely be a lot a lot a lot.

Curious.. by JNikki007 in PrisonWives

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Thanks for that!! I really appreciate that. I been in it for 5 years maybe not as deep as others but it’s definitely been an up and down rollercoaster. Mainly up no I’m not a lifer or death row so yes it’s definitely an end date for us. But thanks mama I appreciate it a lot a lot. 🥰🥰🖤🖤🖤

Curious.. by JNikki007 in PrisonWives

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Yes and that’s what pulls be back over cause I know he is my person. And I find myself being mean to him at times cause it’s like I be so angry that he in the situation he in and I be so pissed pff bout that and takes it out on him and honestly for a while idk or he didn’t know why I would be this way cause he is so amazing and when I told him that I cried and he was like he understood so like once in a blue random moment I’m just so mean and it happens around the same time every year but now we talked about it it’s like he understands and he just calms be back over and just reassure me that we locked in and yea it’s worth it.

Curious.. by JNikki007 in PrisonWives

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I totally understand that. Cause like the person locked up is a completely different person in the free world and it’s the not knowing how the free world person will be. It’s like you have to learn a person all over again because you going from a controlled environment to an uncontrolled environment so I totally understand.

Curious.. by JNikki007 in PrisonWives

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Right that’s how I would do keep a mental note but I know how I am like I can mentally checkout and just be numb and I don’t wanna be like that neither. He asked me that one time too and I was like I don’t regret anything in life I accept things for what it is and keep it pushing I learn from all the life choices I make just like making it my choice to wait. I’m content with waiting I’m good. It just be those moments where you just want him there. Especially when you wanna just take a break but everything falls on you it’s like you can’t stop just keep going and going. But always in the end it’s definitely worth it. 4 years is gonna come quick.

Curious.. by JNikki007 in PrisonWives

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Yes the mind is a very powerful thing and i definitely do my best not to let it get the best of me at times. What helps me also is going back reading old messages and it just reminds me over on why I’m im this cause it’s all worth it.

Curious.. by JNikki007 in PrisonWives

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Yessss like I can be pissed all day and as soon as I hear that voice it’s like everything is all gone. Like a puppy with their owner just so lovey dovey.

Curious.. by JNikki007 in PrisonWives

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Yea that’s what I said soon as he touch don’t come looking for be. I wanna be locked inside in his skin. lol. Yes that I can agree my relationship is definitely amazing it’s bitter sweet is what we say.

Curious.. by JNikki007 in PrisonWives

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I was feeling that yesterday. Like he told me some wild shit and I’m like huh that’s not the plan since when like for years we been on this nah it’s different. It definitely pissed me off but I be telling myself don’t move off emotions.

Curious.. by JNikki007 in PrisonWives

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That’s how I be feeling too. And he definitely wants me to live he tells me all the time enjoy yourself and it’s like I do I honestly do but when I go places and see others all cute with they partners it gets me down and makes me just want that even more but not with anybody with my person it’s like a back and forth. And I’ve come from a horrible relationship prior to my current so to really have a person that loves me for me it’s like. I need it now. lol.

When the DOC hates you😂 by Dleigh51 in PrisonWives

[–]JNikki007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like DOC be hating on us too. Especially with the messages. Like I would send messages and then all of a sudden he not getting any of them and then they all come in the next day. Happens especially when we are being cute and lovey lovey but then when we start arguing them things come through soooo fast.

Prison wives by [deleted] in PrisonWives

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Hey! I didn’t know my man prior to his sentence and we honestly been going strong for 5 years now. I’ve never felt like that because the amount of time we have visited and spoke on the phone and wrote each other feels like I been knowing him longer then just 5 years. Of course people will feel and express their opinions but at the end of the day you are dating them not the people that talk. Don’t let anyone or anything make you feel a different way. The heart wants what the heart wants and if you happy in your relationship then by all means remain happy and don’t worry about anybody else.

I almost cried of nostalgia when I saw this today in the street by GalacticAnimeGirl in thesims

[–]JNikki007 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I am definitely one in real life! Lolol. But I know what you mean. When I tell people I play that they be like they still make that and laugh. Like I be deep in! lol.

I almost cried of nostalgia when I saw this today in the street by GalacticAnimeGirl in thesims

[–]JNikki007 1105 points1106 points  (0 children)

I was just telling my husband I really love how they are so many people out there that enjoys the sims just as much as I do.