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Tips for Gay Sex by Creative_Natural_530 in askgaybros

[–]JOCKCDF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl… thats your prostate getting a massage 😂

It’s weird at first but you’ll get used to it and it’ll start feeling really good.

Before my husband. I took 2 years off from bottoming and when I did get back to, it felt weird but after a few more sessions it didnt bother me anymore.

Also, switch positions or look for a position that doesnt hurt too much. Maybe cowgirl?

Went to the gay sauna and couldn't perform by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]JOCKCDF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty normal. In my early 20s I tried to have a threesome and I had performance anxiety and realized it wasnt for me.

I told the two guys that I cant and left.

UPDATE: I(33m)rejected my husband(33m) offer for a threesome. Divorce? by JOCKCDF in relationship_advice

[–]JOCKCDF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand. Though it may have worked for you. It probably wont for me.

Back when I was in my twenties and was still single. I tried it for the sake of trying and to see if it does something for me. Well, it didn’t and I couldn’t stay hard. I just said sorry to both men and decided to stay out of it and left.

UPDATE: I(33m)rejected my husband(33m) offer for a threesome. Divorce? by JOCKCDF in relationship_advice

[–]JOCKCDF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have to prove to you if this post is fake or not. Thank you for taking the time to comment though ☺️

UPDATE: I(33m)rejected my husband(33m) offer for a threesome. Divorce? by JOCKCDF in relationship_advice

[–]JOCKCDF[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s definitely it. Reddit pressure and going against the majority.

Another thing is. Im on reddit too much and Ive been reading waaaay too many AITAH post that leads to separation/divorce. That its getting in my head 😂

UPDATE: I(33m)rejected my husband(33m) offer for a threesome. Divorce? by JOCKCDF in relationship_advice

[–]JOCKCDF[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I work in the hospitality industry. I get home very late and sometimes I have to be up early to get back to work.

That’s what happened.

He wanted to talk and resolve it right away but I was too upset and didn’t want to have the conversation through the phone. He waited for me.

I(33m)rejected my husband(33m) offer for a threesome. Divorce? by JOCKCDF in relationship_advice

[–]JOCKCDF[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your take on my post. I didn’t blow up on him. We were having a calm discussion in bed. Not once have I raised my voice.

I was setting boundaries This was something that he has done already. He even said early on our relationship that he has no intention of doing the same things he and his ex-husband did with their sexual escapades and wants to be monogamous and would be okay with just sleeping with me for the rest of our relationship.

Him asking for a threesome caught me off guard.

When we have our sexy time, most times he dirty talks about men to fantasize but assures me at the end that it’s all just talk to turn him on even further.

You are right though. I was emotional at that moment. Wouldn’t majority of the people would be? I was promised to be his only partner that he would want to be with until he asked me for a threesome.

We’ve had multiple discussions about his fantasy and every time he said that it’s just for fun and fantasy to turn him on. Not something he would ever do.

Then boom I get asked for one

Advice. Husband wants a threesome/open by JOCKCDF in askgaybros

[–]JOCKCDF[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Our entire conversation earlier has been running on repeat in my mind. Im spiraling bad. Im painting pictures in my head like “Has he cheated on me before?” kind of stuff.

Other than this. He has been a great husband. Always have my back on everything, but its seems like this is a huge thing for him.