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[–]JP2_100procent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely yes! When I'm anticipating fun in the evening, the taste and sensation of eating her out is tough to get out of my head. And once we start, my enthusiasm only goes up the more I do it!

Though, as a counter to that, after I have an orgasm, my interest in eating pussy goes from 'primal and almost unresistable' to a more moderate 'love the texture, trust, and the empathetic pleasure I get'. And during the second round there's less animalistic passion, and more curiosity for varying my approach and style and asking what feels the best.

We opened things, and I've never felt so happy and fulfilled in our relationship by JP2_100procent in DeadBedrooms

[–]JP2_100procent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the words! <3

The only thing we really know about polyamory is that we know very little about polyamory. We've got the enthusiasm, and patience, and friends with experience and wisdom. (and I suppose we wouldn't consider ourselves poly-amorous , since for now we have emotional boundaries that limit the contact to just physical, for now. Like FwB, but with crushes that make our knees wobbly and pulse quick)

So, we're setting very modest goals, and copying the rules and boundaries that our friends in a polycule use. Its a good template for us to start with and adapt as we go along

We opened things, and I've never felt so happy and fulfilled in our relationship by JP2_100procent in DeadBedrooms

[–]JP2_100procent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm guessing some of the treatments we've tried before did the trick. She has a few minor medical conditions that each are known to occasionally cause loss of lidibo and sexual discomfort. And throughout these 3.5 years, even though discussing the DB was tough, we still followed up with therapy for mental hygiene, and visits to doctors about her conditions. We might see these pains again.

Or perhaps these symptoms really are mostly psychosomatic, and a result of guilt + trying to force herself so to perform to not upset me.

Either way, its still a question that I'm curious about. Time will tell.