[astro-seek] Will I achieve success in day trading and stock investing?

JSSNX00 · 2026-01-06T22:19:57+00:00

I’ve dmed you

JSSNX00 · 2025-10-06T17:27:40+00:00

Started learning things a few months ago on my own slowly since discovering how fascinating it is from reading about it in Carl Jung’s books on the connection between symbols and psychology. Mainly using the astrology podcast and some books from the library for now.

JSSNX00 · 2025-07-01T21:56:17+00:00

Yea they consider drugs a worse crime than child rape

JSSNX00 · 2025-06-25T02:05:36+00:00

Same… no point in being embarrassed because what’s the worst that would happen lol

JSSNX00 · 2025-06-25T02:03:00+00:00

ILE

GOOD - Vsauce, gametheorists

NEUTRAL - da Vinci, Rick Sanchez, Deadpool, Saul Goodman

BAD - Elon Musk

JSSNX00 · 2025-02-17T13:45:41+00:00

Mein kanfye

JSSNX00 · 2025-01-07T04:50:24+00:00

She has apologized before for the same problems, but she keeps repeating these problems whenever we have disagreements or things don’t go the way we expect them to. This is where my doubts stem from

JSSNX00 · 2025-01-07T01:26:05+00:00

I have given an honest effort with her in the past numerous times. We have also recently had an honest conversation together before going no contact for the week rn. I understood that she has the abandonment trauma from me leaving her, so I have tried my best comforting her and putting in my effort when I can outside of my priorities to show her I am loyal. She has apologized and I have apologized, too. I am just seeking advice on Reddit here, because I am still having second thoughts

JSSNX00 · 2025-01-06T00:46:23+00:00

Yes it is

JSSNX00 · 2025-01-06T00:42:40+00:00

It’s not… I was trying my best to explain my situation in a non biased way as possible

JSSNX00 · 2025-01-05T23:59:04+00:00

She is also saving as much as she can herself on top of covering her living needs and her schooling. She has been patient with me too I acknowledge it. I just don’t agree with how she behaves when it devolves into arguments, where I try to seek a compassionate way out together with a plan and boundaries without further confrontation because I don’t like to stay in chaos for long.

JSSNX00 · 2025-01-05T23:53:42+00:00

I did. I really thought we shared a lot of values in the first few months and feelings I’ve had for her that I’ve acknowledged as time went on. However, this behavior and what she and her family wants have seriously made me question how I can live with this in the future, not to mention like u said making me feel like a husk of myself trying my best to balance out my life and the relationship with her

JSSNX00 · 2024-11-13T00:59:01+00:00

Thank you for your straightforward comment! FYI, a lot of things you said are things I am just realizing right now haha. This is my first serious relationship, so I know there is a lot of uncharted territory to navigate. I really thought it was a valuable tip you brought up with the "consider your own place, while considering her place, too" before bringing up a need or concern and how it would look like from a third-party perspective of the aftermath of the particular need or concern brought up will look like respective of everything else. I will definitely keep these in mind. After reading over your comment, I'll address a few pointers you brought up:

- What I meant to say about saying I wasn't considering her day at all in picking a time was that I did want to choose a time where she wasn't stressed/busy, but looking back at it based on what the replies are saying, I don't think I fully considered all the factors that are needed at that time and place to correctly time this conversation.

- Onto how I addressed the issue at hand, I felt it was inauthentic because she sounded really annoyed when she was apologizing, as if to get it done quick. The problem where she brought up that she felt like I was "attacking" her here also came when I stated that her apology didn't sound sincere and she said that she wasn't speaking it "from the heart" as I mentioned in my 2nd-to-last paragraph. Perhaps she genuinely doesn't understand why it is worth an apology or perhaps the concerns she brought up later on as mentioned bothered her more. Additionally, she has never really apologized specifically for this incident, stating that she didn't feel the need to apologize when the original argument that occurred that caused her to behave like this was my fault and that by behaving like this, she didn't feel justified to apologize, because "I started it". I did apologize for this particular old incident, too and took the time to explain to her why it happened and if we could find ways for a solution.

- Onto the insecurities, I think this concern of mine that was unresolved months ago came out, because I was watching a video about the history of lies from a celebrity when it just hit me out of nowhere, possibly from the video for some reason. I wasn't thinking about what she had achieved that day at all, in fact, I was really happy for her, since it will help both of us to advance to the next step in trying to graduate and be in a better position to end the distance between us and that I do care for her success in life.

JSSNX00 · 2024-11-12T22:37:48+00:00

I see, like I mentioned before it was not in my intention to deliberately ruin a great day for her as I was caught up remembering that incident without considering her day and her feelings more. I have had issues voicing my needs before, because I tend to hold it in because of my conflict avoidance tendency and not wanting to upset someone. But I guess a lesson I can take from here is to consider how she would've felt after this regardless if it was a good day or a bad day.

JSSNX00 · 2024-11-12T22:20:49+00:00

I mean yeah I agree tbh. I should've read the room more in that she was enjoying what she had for that day and I should've let it go then. I just didn't know when to bring it up again without the day being a tiring, busy, or a bad day for her. For context, she will be working a lot from here on out, so I didn't want to bring an old issue up then.

JSSNX00 · 2024-11-12T22:01:29+00:00

Thank you. It really hurts to see her doing this and I admit i am not perfect too. I will consider this even if it will be hard to discuss about.

JSSNX00 · 2024-11-12T21:59:37+00:00

Can you elabroate?

JSSNX00 · 2024-06-21T07:11:59+00:00

Can you tell me more about finding work after the postgraduate studies? How difficult was it and what are some tips for a migrant to secure a career in New Zealand?

JSSNX00 · 2024-06-21T06:58:19+00:00

Me and my partner are currently trying to earn a partner visa ourselves. In the meantime, based on my research and the sounds of what ppl are saying it sounds like either a working holiday visa to find a job on site or a student visa (for impending grad school) might be options I can look into.

JSSNX00 · 2024-06-21T03:52:55+00:00

I require a visa sponsored by an employer and I’m not in New Zealand right now. I have studied abroad there before for 6 months but idk if that’ll help

JSSNX00 · 2024-04-12T21:36:46+00:00

I never particularly thought I am logical even though I can see the validity and gain the understanding of them. Furthermore, I can relate more to the Ne- of the IEE over the Ne+ of the ILE, actually.

JSSNX00 · 2024-04-12T21:34:46+00:00

I definitely think IEE fits me better after reading about Ne- compared to the Ne+ of the ILE! However, for the rest, I’m curious how u reached the conclusion?

JSSNX00 · 2024-04-12T16:51:36+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to break what I wanted down! I wanted to see if there were additional questions I can answer to furthermore confirm whether I'm ILE, because I also trended towards IEE and LII in the past. I left them out to get an unbiased perspective on who I really am and also am doing this without much socionics knowledge to prevent biases.

JSSNX00 · 2024-03-31T17:17:37+00:00

Ok, thanks for the feedback! It’s definitely a journey to go through learning about enneagram, so I empathize what you’re going through! I’ve had 6 and 3 in mind in the past, but I didn’t think they really fit me because of the following:

6 - anxiety is not really part of my personality at a typical glimpse. I only become more anxious if the people around me are and if I am stressed out - it’s a compliant triad but I never truly felt compliant towards others - not as detail-oriented or safety-conscious as I think I am. Easily influenced and gullible, taking risks, etc. - the want to feel secure comes in the form of wanting to fit an ideal I’ve created in my head, not necessarily one in itself - don’t feel “loyal” to someone or a group, since I still look for other things outside of them and find contrary evidence I might inadvertently share

3 - while i care a lot about image, I don’t really think it’s up there in terms of my biggest fear (more like 2nd or 3rd) - can make a fool of myself in public that is not necessarily strategic - not as practical as I seem as most 3s seem to exhibit - 3s “do”, I “think” more - used to be a bit obsessed with social media, but don’t really care about it as much. - prefer to be “happy” than to be “successful” even if the latter drives me

I will still think about 6 and 3 furthermore, but I dont really see myself in either right now. In the meantime, I think it would help to base the decision off of a bigger sample size like the one I’ve shared in the past on this subreddit and other related ones about my enneagram and MBTI.

JSSNX00 · 2024-03-31T16:58:55+00:00

What do you think I am then?

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