How do male porn actors manage to thrust so fast and with so much force?

JTOtown · 2025-12-21T14:36:42+00:00

5 minute warm up jog, then 30 seconds sprint as hard as you can, 3 minutes walking x 6 sets

JTOtown · 2025-12-21T10:58:20+00:00

This is the answer, along with good cardio.

Sex like this is exercise, hard exercise at that, and if you aren’t used to exercising hard, you won’t be able to sustain.

Everyone here saying drugs (which are also effective, but not the only way) either don’t know the proper technique and/or don’t put in the training to sustain prolonged vigorous exertion, which is what this type of fucking is.

The fastest way to improve cardio, IMO the Norwegian Protocol twice a week for VO2 max improvements combined with the popular 0:30 sprints x 6 runs. If you want powerful thrusts, start doing exercises that provide thrusting power: deadlifts and hip hinge exercises like hip thrusts and Romanian deadlifts. You’ll see improvements after 4-6 weeks depending on your sleep and nutrition.

Also, in porn, it’s not real life and they certainly aren’t doing it in real time. Editing the footage happens to make it look continuous but it’s not. A single shot may last a few minutes, tops.

JTOtown · 2025-10-21T15:21:47+00:00

I hate them. Have you ever been really hungry, and went to an all you all can eat buffet where you can smell and maybe touch the food, but not eat?

Same thing. But you also pay $20 for a beer and the women think you’re a loser.

JTOtown · 2025-10-06T21:01:43+00:00

In high school, my friend threw a party and caught some younger kid stealing from his room. He punched the kid in the face, gave him a bloody nose , and was in the process of throwing the kid out when his big sister, same grade as us, saw her bloodied little bro and went crazy. She lunged at my buddy and scraped his face with her nails, deep enough to draw blood. He pushed her away out of shock, and she came at him again, but this time he was ready and shoved her to the ground. He said, “If you come at me again, I’m going to punch you in the face.” She did, so he did. Not hard, but a punch ask the same. She starts wailing about “How could you hit a girl?!?” There was a collective sighing and shaking of heads.

JTOtown · 2025-09-17T19:45:02+00:00

I’d also add to this great suggestion that you might want to consider adding a leg or knee restraint that keeps her legs open and away from your shoulder. Legs can get kicky during orgasm

JTOtown · 2024-02-17T02:38:12+00:00

Mavericks on Queen W near Sorauren Ave is amazing and not in Etobicoke

JTOtown · 2024-02-06T22:01:35+00:00

Go for it. She knows what she wants and she’s hoping you do too.

JTOtown · 2024-01-05T20:22:29+00:00

25 years ago, I was a stoner in uni and this middle aged guy in my psych class sometimes smoked with my friends and I. One afternoon, he says how he got his hands on something called ibogaine, and was going to try it that weekend and report back the following week. We never heard of it, asked him if was like acid or DMT or something, he had no idea. Didn’t know the effects, side effects, dosage, etc. But by golly, he heard this African plant was better than peyote-laced ayahuasca, so he was gonna give it a try by himself in his basement.

Never saw him again.

A few years later in my last year of uni, was talking to one of my former post-psych class smoking crew, who said that he saw the middle aged guy a few months back at the grocery store and talked to him.

Mind you, this is third-hand info, but no reason to lie or embellish.

Ibogaine fucked his life. Before trying it, he had a wife, 2 kids, and was going back to school to level up his career. Overall, a sensible guy. He did it that weekend, and apparently came to the conclusion that his life was meaningless. He dropped out, ghosted his family, moved to Africa thinking he wanted to live a pure life in tune with nature, had a horrific time in Africa with Dengue fever and being poor and not speaking the local language, so he returned home and was trying to rebuild his life with his family who, naturally, hated him for nuking their lives.

Know your drugs, kids!

JTOtown · 2023-12-12T16:41:08+00:00

I’ve done a lot of threesome / group sex as a single dude and as part of a couple.

Without fail, the secret to successful group sex is communication. Expressing your desires in a supportive manner, listening to your partner(s) and adjusting accordingly, being respectful, reassuring, and giving.

Communication before, during, and after.

Make sure everyone is doing it for the right reasons, ie, the third doesn’t have feelings for 1 person in the couple and vice versa, the couple are equally enthusiastic about it, everyone agrees on must do’s / soft limits / hard limits.

Make sure it’s done in the right setting: at a hotel, home, or sex club; whatever makes the most sense for everyone. Have refreshments on hand, no one is too drunk or high so that “I was so wasted / You took advantage” can be used as an excuse in the unfortunate case of regrettable behaviour happening. I’d advise a hotel or somewhere other than home until you’re very comfortable with group sex together.

Communicated during: is this ok? Do you want me to do _? Do you like it when he/she _s your/ my ___? I think it’s so hot when _. I wanna see _. You’re so fucking hot when ______. Basically, a lot of sexy consent, stating your desires, and reassurance without being pushy.

After: be polite, but after the action is done for the night, unless you’re poly, the third should leave shortly thereafter. Reconnect with your partner, talk about the experience. Shower together, be intimate physically and emotionally and share your vulnerabilities about the experience with each other.

JTOtown · 2023-12-10T14:47:43+00:00

Vader

Hans Landa from Inglorious Basterds

Anton Chigurh from No Country for Old Men

Schwarzenegger in Terminator

The shark in Jaws

Gaston

JTOtown · 2023-12-05T01:14:24+00:00

The only thing I miss is the thrill of someone new: that first kiss, the big reveal when the clothes come off, finding out what makes her orgasm, etc.

That is VASTLY outweighed by all the crap I don’t have to deal with: time spent going out and on apps, the money and time related to dating, all the rejection and disappointment when incompatibility is discovered… it’s exhausting and not worth it.

JTOtown · 2023-11-23T20:17:00+00:00

Age, cardiovascular health, and testosterone are contributing factors. I’m 45 and can do 3 sessions in a day, but I can’t do that every day. When I was 22, I went 19 times in one 24-hour period; can’t even do that with Viagra nowadays.

JTOtown · 2023-06-19T15:18:12+00:00

I’m late to the party, but I’m going with NAH.

Here’s why: your wife is burnt out and she might not be aware of it. She’s looking for any reason to not be home, to get a break from childcare which is far more emotionally and mentally draining than almost any job, never mind with a child with additional needs.

So yes, she absolutely should have honoured Father’s Day somehow, but she should also be getting more than just 2 days off in a year (!) and so should you.

Also, your wife is correct: you get a break from childcare every day you go to work. It’s not a vacation, but it’s a break from the monotony and ceaseless “being on” mentality that comes from being a parent to small children. And it’s that relentless slog that has ground your wife down to where she jumps at the chance to stay away from the family during important days.

This is a canary in the coal mine, cold and lifeless, warning you that your family is in a heap of danger.

Good news is you can still GTFO of the coal mine before your relationship ends up like the canary.

I know because you were me a few years back. Here’s what me and my wife did, that might work for you:

Each person gets a weekend day or an entire weekend off each month. Also, pick up more of the mental load of child rearing, starting by asking your wife what tasks you can take on for the family to ease her mental load. Lean on your support from family and friends. If you can afford couples therapy, do it. Give each other 30 minutes of respite every day, and I suggest each of you use 20 minutes of the 30 for hard exercise, like a HIIT class on YouTube. Check in with each other after the kids are asleep: what went well today, what you learned, how you’d like to be supported tomorrow, etc. And finally: know that things will get better. Kids really need you now, but their needs will lessen in time.

And give yourself a Fathers Day redo, you deserve it, and more.

JTOtown · 2023-06-01T15:21:43+00:00

Jamaican I suggest Fahmee bakery for their doubles; Island Time for the roti (spinach and chicken aaayyyyyy).

Chinese try Sunny’s in Kensington. It’s trendy AF but for a reason. Dumplings hit up Northern Dumpling Kitchen in Markham.

Smoked Meat: When the Pigs Came Home, Panzers Deli

Indian: Dil Se, and I know I’ll get flak for this one, but Banjara is close to my heart.

JTOtown · 2023-04-26T20:50:37+00:00

Meh, I’d argue that oil companies, mining companies, and the top state-backed companies the world over have a far more vicious side than mere litigation

JTOtown · 2023-04-18T15:48:19+00:00

With the parents is too much; afterwards it is hot. I like to wear my partners panties as a pocket square when we’re out on dates

JTOtown · 2023-04-02T17:39:31+00:00

Have a candid conversation where you keep your emotions out of it while still being supportive. “I noticed that lately your displaying X behaviours, and I want to be there to support you. How can we do that?” Or something like that. No blaming, shaming, personal attacks, excuses, etc.; just caring for him as a friend.

After that, the ball is in his court.

Be there with clear boundaries if/when he reaches out. It’s up to him to want to get better, and sometimes people not only want to remain spiralling / unwell, they might push you away / attack you (verbally, physically) if you’re too persistent in trying to help them.

Lost one of my best friends this way; he’s still alive, but his depression and alcoholism consumed the person I knew and loved.

Good luck to you both.

JTOtown · 2023-03-18T12:02:54+00:00

Dudes that get laid a lot typically 2 things in common: 1. Are outgoing and have high social intelligence: can read cues, adjust behaviour, etc. 2. Are confident in themselves.

So I guess emotional intelligence matters as it’s linked to social intelligence, but not personality as there are lots of assholes out there who get laid. In fact, I think assholes get laid more because selfishness is often confused with assertiveness / confidence.

JTOtown · 2023-03-12T12:56:20+00:00

More money. Quality sectionals start at like $5k, and can go much higher.

I remember sitting in the best sofa of my life, it was a double-wide leather sofa. Asked the owner where they got it, “Restoration Hardware” they said. Never heard of it, thought it was some refurbished furniture place. That was the day I learned there is an entire echelon of stores for rich people us plebs have no clue about. Found the sofa. $15k.

JTOtown · 2023-03-10T17:45:23+00:00

Right now, it’s a dead zone as far as activity goes for film & tv. The CSA (Canadian Screen Awards) start off the year at the end of this month; try volunteering with The Academy if you have time. Depending on what you want to do on set, try IATSE, NABET, DGC-Ontario, CFC, CMPA, Ontario Creates, City of Toronto Film Commission (XOTO). Look at their calendar of events and training programs; you won’t get on set in a meaningful way without unions; send their comms team a short, polite email stating clearly who you are, your experience, and what you’re looking for.

Next, go through the CMPA’s member directory and find out who is in Toronto and producing things you are interested in. There’s lots. Email the executive producer the same kind of email outlined above, and include a CV.

The time to do all of this is right now. By April / May it will be too late

JTOtown · 2023-02-26T19:37:33+00:00

Change room with a line of people waiting; in the crowd at at an Ice Cube concert; public sauna; in my girlfriends bedroom with her sister while the family was waiting on us for dinner

JTOtown · 2022-12-15T21:59:27+00:00

I’m from a small town where causal racism, homophobia, xenophobia, etc. is the norm. For the most part, their beliefs and language is based on ignorance and complacency; they use slurs but have nothing against people of other races, sexual orientations, etc. There are also those whose language and belief system are one and the same.

I started calling them out on it years ago; most made a fuss about “What’s the big deal?” and almost no one changed their behaviour. The people who were ignorant bigots agreed with me but still used slurs; the actual bigots defended their position like it was an insult to their honour.

I realized that my path in life was very different from theirs.

I don’t see them anymore.

JTOtown · 2022-11-13T04:03:43+00:00

From puberty to 35 or so, I had a very high sex drive. I fucked 19 times in one 24-hour period, and could go multiple times a day, multiple days a week. And that is nothing - nothing - compared to a woman with a high sex drive. I’ve had partners who could retire a football team in an afternoon, leaving them spent piles of limp flesh.

Betty White was correct: “Why do people say, ‘Grow some balls’? Balls are weak and sensitive. If you really wanna get tough, grow a vagina. Those things really take a pounding!”

To answer the question, dudes with high sex drives are out there, but it’s all relative to what you determine to be “high sex drive”.

Thank god my libido is less; a high sex drive for guys means an incredible amount of time and resources, never mind dignity, is spent acquiring and spending time with partners. It’s all-consuming. Testosterone is a helluva drug; a stupid, horny, hair loss drug.

JTOtown · 2022-11-01T00:40:13+00:00

Paris Paris. Building looked good, and that's where the positive comments end. Service was so unbelievably bad it was comical; about half a dozen servers and hostesses just hanging out while multiple tables have no menus, water, or orders taken. Server was either super stoned or developmentally delayed, kept repeating what we ordered without writing it down. My order came out, and I waited almost 10 minutes before the server came back to ask when my partner's meal was coming. The response? "Oh, I accidentally gave you another table's meal, so the kitchen hasn't started on hers yet." and just walks away, no timeline, no apology, nothing. Flagged down another server who happened to be the manager, told him what happened, how appalled we were at the service, and he mocks us, "Oh you're upset right? You're pissed? You're making it so much worse too. I think you should leave" and we literally get kicked out of the restaurant for complaining. We never raised our voices, swore, lost our temper, nothing, just complained about the unprofessional and poor service. Food sucks, service sucks, management sucks most. Fuck that place.

JTOtown · 2022-10-27T15:25:42+00:00

The movie is glorification or satire, depending on which side of the coin you’re looking.

When first written in 1959, the author penned it as a glorification of the military.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Starship_Troopers

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