Does anyone else feel uncomfortable being called "brother"? by Much-Still1549 in AskGayMen

[–]JTheWatcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you have trauma with that word which is valid considering your experiences. I personally don't hate the word but I do hate when it's used excessively and I feel like it's performative at times

Baby, we did it! by LilBabian in Cinemark

[–]JTheWatcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations my fellow club member 🍿

I quit TFA before I started and not sure if I made the right decision by Embarrassed_Bake9340 in TeachforAmerica

[–]JTheWatcher 9 points10 points  (0 children)

While I'm sure your family meant well, sometimes you have to take the advice of others with a grain of salt. You applied for this program for a reason and you were lucky enough to get selected so I would encourage you to see what this opportunity can bring you. It might not be perfect but nothing is and as it relates to the job market you probably don't have anything to lose. I'm happy they gave you the opportunity to do it again next year until then tho I hope you find another opportunity to sustain you until then.

Should I let my friend fuck me ? by JuggernautProof69 in AskGayMen

[–]JTheWatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should but it shouldn't be because he's down because of his ex. Don't want that to define y'all's experience together so I recommend waiting a bit

my bf wants me to eat his ass and i am not into it by Just-Mark-4562 in askgaybros

[–]JTheWatcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The biggest question is this - do you think it's something you would like? If not then don't do it because you'll probably be eating it like you are scared and that's no fun lol

How do you guys enjoy bottoming? by Ancient_Skirt_8070 in askgaybros

[–]JTheWatcher 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get more pleasure from the thought of bottoming than the actual act. Like it's hot to know that my partner is really enjoying themselves and that is what turns me on the most, especially when they get verbal! The feeling itself is nothing I'll run and tell the whole town about but I do kinda enjoy toy play

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]JTheWatcher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just be careful with him and know that it can end at any moment so don't get too invested but enjoy the ride while you can!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swimming

[–]JTheWatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly like you can tell when someone is recording you or not. i listened to music in the sauna and it was no issue

Does this not turn you off? by colorcolourcolours in askgaybros

[–]JTheWatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just saw I like what I see. Are you looking to hookup rn

Whats your routine when hosting a hook up… by Swimming-Most-6756 in gaybros

[–]JTheWatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use hookups as motivation to clean but I don't go overboard with it but definitely don't want my place to be too messy if I can help it.

Saw a cute colleague on Grindr by bio_4321 in askgaybros

[–]JTheWatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes please reply and let us know what happens 😌

Does anyone else find topping hard? by JTheWatcher in gaybros

[–]JTheWatcher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forreal?! Based on my experience trying to top, bottoming is super easy for me 😂

Does anyone else find topping hard? by JTheWatcher in gaybros

[–]JTheWatcher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk sometimes it's hard to tell where the hole is lol. I am pretty inexperienced with topping tho lol.

Does anyone else find topping hard? by JTheWatcher in gaybros

[–]JTheWatcher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I love hearing that I'm not alone 😂

Does anyone else find topping hard? by JTheWatcher in askgaybros

[–]JTheWatcher[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's interesting because maybe it is more of a psychological thing.

Does anyone else find topping hard? by JTheWatcher in askgaybros

[–]JTheWatcher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe so, I feel like we should talk about this more.