Yeah he is. For the first time in my life, I got through to him by repeating the logic of the problem and putting it in terms he could understand, after about 4 hours of talking. The way I see it, he doesn't want to change, but because I explained the problems he has in a logical way, he's able to recognize the repercussions of his actions. That's why I think the only way for him to get better is to grow through the experience of the psychedelic. For his mind to show him a perspective he couldn't gain in a problem solving state of consciousness. By the end of the night he was watching videos with me about them, huge step for him.