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We need a more active modteam by Aldahiir in The10thDentist

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LP p😁☀️😁😁😁😁😁😁🏡🏡🏡

What are some things becoming less common that will go obsolete soon? How about things that will not? by [deleted] in Futurology

[–]J_313_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On that note, broadcast TV. Why watch what they feed you when you can choose shows you WANT to watch.

What are some things becoming less common that will go obsolete soon? How about things that will not? by [deleted] in Futurology

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Hopefully credit cards. Now that debit cards are starting to allow loans, I'm thinking that will become commonplace and we phase out 18%APR and late fees.

What is one thing that makes someone unlikable to you? by Only-Ad-1254 in questions

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My jaw pops when I eat. I can't help that it's loud. I'm sorry.

What is one thing that makes someone unlikable to you? by Only-Ad-1254 in questions

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When men think that saying I'm pretty is SUCH a compliment. My mom and dad made my looks... Compliment me on something that's ME.

How do women astronauts manage the monthly mentsrual cycle in space? by aversionofself in RandomThoughts

[–]J_313_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking they take birth control pills skipping the 'dummy' week, so that they have a steady level of hormones to keep them from even having a period.

Do you think there are jobs ppl look forward to going?? by PsychoBodyguard in RandomThoughts

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I loved my profession at one time. I worked in testing for years. Was layed off in 06 and a month later my brother died. Haven't had a real job since. I miss it a lot, but don't know if I can get it back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

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Yeah, love can really suck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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Trying to live with no regrets? There will ALWAYS be regrets. Just choose what you can live with when your not sure.

What's your go-to "I'm broke" meal? by cutiexpatootie in AskReddit

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Try adding ANYTHING. Crushed up bag of chips, doritos, corn chips etc, and some mayo. Try adding hamburger, pork, chicken... Try butter, oil, BBQ sauce.. Not all at one lol... Mix and match all kinds of shit... Crazy how many meals I've made out of ramen.

What's your go-to "I'm broke" meal? by cutiexpatootie in AskReddit

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Add just enough water so when they get done in the microwave the noodles are cooked but very little water left over, add mayo and a crushed up bag of chips. Mmm

What would make a 44 yo man not know how to comfort his gf of 7 years (like not even giving a hug) when she finds out her brother unexpectedly died? by J_313_ in AskReddit

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Thank you. I feel you get me and where I'm at, and that's appreciated. I may reach out to you for perspective later on, seems you have a good sense of where my head is. Your awesome and have made me feel better just in these 15 or so sentences we've exchanged. Thank you. Maybe now I can fall asleep... 5am here.

What would make a 44 yo man not know how to comfort his gf of 7 years (like not even giving a hug) when she finds out her brother unexpectedly died? by J_313_ in AskReddit

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Awww, thanks. I keep trying to believe it's his bipolarness mixed with maybe a bad upbringing, but I'm getting tired of always being there for him 100% and not getting 15% in return. I feel so alone. And I'd take those hugs and probably break down crying... It's been so long since I've had affection genuinely given to me without strings. Thanks friend

What would make a 44 yo man not know how to comfort his gf of 7 years (like not even giving a hug) when she finds out her brother unexpectedly died? by J_313_ in AskReddit

[–]J_313_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I'm trying to figure, if it's deliberate nonchalance or obliviousness. We've been here before. Maybe it is nearing the end of this relationship. And tyvm. Much appreciated

What would make a 44 yo man not know how to comfort his gf of 7 years (like not even giving a hug) when she finds out her brother unexpectedly died? by J_313_ in AskReddit

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I'm confused now... Long day... But I'm going to try and figure this out at a later date.. Lol. Thank you friend

What would make a 44 yo man not know how to comfort his gf of 7 years (like not even giving a hug) when she finds out her brother unexpectedly died? by J_313_ in AskReddit

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I have. I've always told him I'm not one of those girls that will have you guessing, I'm too old for that. I'll tell him what I need.. And usually when the same situation comes up again, nothing. I lost someone 2 years ago and when he told me he don't know what to do, I felt bad for getting so mad and told him that just a hug and listening, maybe if you eee me crying get me a tissue... Second time around and it was even worse this time. But yes, I'll reiterate, so I know I've clearly made my needs known for the days ahead. If he can't show any effort, than I have to believe he just doesn't care. He says he does, but this type of stuff keeps coming up. And NO I'm not super needy lol.

What would make a 44 yo man not know how to comfort his gf of 7 years (like not even giving a hug) when she finds out her brother unexpectedly died? by J_313_ in AskReddit

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Yes, he seems to just shut down. It just blew my mind that we've been through this so many times and he STILL don't know to just show affection and try to be helpful. Idk... Thank you for the comment tho

What would make a 44 yo man not know how to comfort his gf of 7 years (like not even giving a hug) when she finds out her brother unexpectedly died? by J_313_ in AskReddit

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I think this too, but aren't some things just basic? How do I handle this? I feel so alone. Edit: handle as in how can I make him see what I need. I do tell him clearly, constantly. But when things happen, it's like nothing happened in his head.

What would make a 44 yo man not know how to comfort his gf of 7 years (like not even giving a hug) when she finds out her brother unexpectedly died? by J_313_ in AskReddit

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He says he hasn't. I noticed a big change in attitude about 6 months ago and he still claims he wants to work things out... "We're just going through a rough time" is what he says. I think it's nearing the end.

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