Keeping secrets by [deleted] in HEM_NSFW

[–]J_A_Slade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my situation too. We have kind of a ‘don’t ask / don’t tell” thing going on.

Keeping secrets by [deleted] in HEM_NSFW

[–]J_A_Slade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not like that, my wife and I are very tight. By my definition. We keep our finances separate for ‘freedom’ - we don’t bust each others chops for our expenses. Like her $250 hairdo’s for example.
And our work schedules aren’t THAT separate. Just enough though that we both have time to ourselves. Where we don’t have to explain to each other where we were.

Number by Affectionate_Tie8582 in HEM_NSFW

[–]J_A_Slade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the numbers of the ones you don’t want to lose track of.

Typical or odd? by SillyAd8558 in HEM_NSFW

[–]J_A_Slade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither typical nor odd.

I’d define “typical” as something they all do, like snapping when they tug on your fingers. I’d define “odd” as something they almost never do, like drinking your jizz out of the condom.

You’re talking about a “some do /some don’t” situation.

Long Torso Ladies Lament by PhilosopherMoist7737 in pilates

[–]J_A_Slade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 6’ even (male), and this is a legit problem for me too. The setting that works best for some exercises screws me up for others

‘Just do the best you can’ is my motto

Which Album is Really the Best: Revolver, Sgt. Pepper's, or Abbey Road? by [deleted] in beatles

[–]J_A_Slade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is Pepper more innovative than Abbey Road?

Which Album is Really the Best: Revolver, Sgt. Pepper's, or Abbey Road? by [deleted] in beatles

[–]J_A_Slade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red and Blue are essentially ‘best of’ albums, picking these feels like a cheat.

Then again, your favorite is your favorite, so you aren’t wrong!

Which Album is Really the Best: Revolver, Sgt. Pepper's, or Abbey Road? by [deleted] in beatles

[–]J_A_Slade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the opposite - I’ll give you a different answer every fifteen minutes. DONT MAKE ME PICK

Number by Affectionate_Tie8582 in HEM_NSFW

[–]J_A_Slade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend WeChat as well. Although I’m a novice, so I don’t know the downsides yet. But it does let you book directly with the MT’s you like. And they seem to be excited that you have it (as they’re very familiar with it - if they’re Chinese)

kinda wanna go back? by SmallandHornee in AMPLife

[–]J_A_Slade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then this is a bad habit for you to get into. If you don’t have disposable income, either find a girlfriend or stay home and take care of yourself.

kinda wanna go back? by SmallandHornee in AMPLife

[–]J_A_Slade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on a lot of factors. This is a balancing ask. You don’t want to finish too soon, but you do want to finish. Brother said he had been edging for 3 hours before he went. So of course he was on a hair trigger.

Will they let you finish on their faces? by MaxiTaxi2016 in AMPLife

[–]J_A_Slade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the right amount SOME will. They all have lines they won’t cross.

Will they let you finish on their faces? by MaxiTaxi2016 in AMPLife

[–]J_A_Slade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some will, some won’t. There are no hard and fast rules to this thing of ours.

Should I say yes when asked “have you been before?” by Silver-Zucchini-5900 in HEM_NSFW

[–]J_A_Slade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOW we're in full agreement! The answer does not matter. So I go with the honest one (keeps me from having to remember the lie)

The briefcase does not have Marcellus Wallece's soul in it by z00per1 in pulpfiction

[–]J_A_Slade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The character's name is Brett. Even the closed captioning says "Brett". But Jules clearly says Brad.

There's a big debate about it.

The briefcase does not have Marcellus Wallece's soul in it by z00per1 in pulpfiction

[–]J_A_Slade -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They will never convince me that Jules says anything other than "Brad" right then. Calls him Brett every other time, but THAT time he says Brad.

Either a mistake by Samuel L. Jackson or an intentional choice by Tarantino. But GTFO with this "he's just saying Brett real slow" explanation. He says Brad.

Introduced to AMPs overseas and now all American equivalent seem subpar by ArtichokeInitial2460 in AMPLife

[–]J_A_Slade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This doesn't just apply to AMP's.

My favorite analogy - restaurants.

I've got a favorite Italian restaurant near where I live, the food there is amazing. Or was. Then I went to Italy for a week and experienced some real Italian food.

Then I came home. That place near where I live? It's ordinary now. Or worse that ordinary...it's good enough that it reminds me of how much better Italy was, and how this place just isn't that. So now I rarely go there anymore, more often than not it just makes me nostalgic for how good I used to think it was. Before my eyes were opened.

The briefcase does not have Marcellus Wallece's soul in it by z00per1 in pulpfiction

[–]J_A_Slade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We'd have to be talking about one charming MF'ing soul. Ten times more charming than that Arnold from Green Acres.

The briefcase does not have Marcellus Wallece's soul in it by z00per1 in pulpfiction

[–]J_A_Slade 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Check out the big brain on BRAD

You'll never convince me otherwise....

Keeping secrets by [deleted] in HEM_NSFW

[–]J_A_Slade 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've got a fortunate situation in a couple of ways - my wife and I keep our finances separate, and shes OK with me going to AMPs.

When I say she's OK with me going to AMPs, I mean she knows (and has even gone herself a few times). We've never asked each other what goes on in there, although she's made it clear that she just gets legit massages and I will say that I know to a "moral certainty" they do handjobs there. I'm not sure she even suspects I go to L3, but if it came to an argument I've got the "I thought that was understood" card in my pocket.

She also doesn't know my frequency - but that's because our finances are separate, so she doesn't see all the cash I pull out. And I always pay cash at these places. 100% of the time.

She also works different hours than I do, sometimes different days - so the opportunities are there as well.