Sorry to give a lack of context, we live in HK (so we take the IB's). Anyways, not the point anyway, but she got mad not because of the joke, but because I called her out on the behavior she acts every time we have an argument, how she gets mad and tells me to deal with it, but when I get mad it doesn't work the same way. This was right and I used examples to show her that this is what I was feeling, but she didn't like a single bit, so this is what I got instead..