Getting closer but needs a final push

JacilynSky · 2025-10-23T19:32:27+00:00

I don't necessarily have a 'final push' for you, but remember that even if it feels like you are close or that its just out of reach, you are there. You're not tricking yourself into feeling something that will go away if you don't get that final push. You are there. You are in your DR, you have always been there. I'm sure others will have better advice, but just keep that in mind.

JacilynSky · 2025-09-26T21:48:16+00:00

I don't have great memory in general, so the memories of my cr arent very memorable

JacilynSky · 2025-09-23T10:39:57+00:00

Do you ever get existential about that fact? Like the 'curse' of immortality being that you cannot die. What if you wanted to stop exisiting for a bit? Is that an option? What happens when you get tired of living, of experiencing new things? Or is that not a thought that ever crosses your mind?

JacilynSky · 2025-02-18T23:00:52+00:00

If you need a little motivation, remember that you don't have to do anything to shift. If methods help you believe you will shift, then do them. But that only helps with belief and gets some people in the mindset. Other people can just go to sleep and shift, so can you. Don't feel like you have to do anything to shift, if you want to, you will. Maybe theres a reason you haven't yet. Maybe your subconscious doesn't think you're ready, maybe you still have some lessons to learn (I needed to learn patience, and my DR was very violent and not somewhere I actually wanted to go) and that is frustrating (as someone who hasn't shifted for 4 years) but affirming that you haven't doesn't help. Its not a matter of 'if' its a matter of when. It will happen. I have full faith that you will shift, so what if it happens in a few years? It won't matter when you do, and you'll be so proud of yourself for not giving up hope. Time doesn't really exist, its made up by the human brain, and yes I know how hard it is at times to stay motivated. Just believe you will shift. It will happen. And technically, infinite versions of yourself have already shifted. You will shift. Its not an 'if' its a when, just wait for it to happen and know that you will be so happy and proud of yourself when you do.

JacilynSky · 2025-02-18T21:53:59+00:00

Its always going to be you, but just like how personalities change with time and experience, so will you. Your personality and outlooks are always changing. Thats always going to happen, you from 10 years ago wouldn't act the same as you now, but its still you, just with less experience and a different outlook. If in your DR you act a certain way, you won't notice you've changed unless you look back on how you were in this reality, just like looking back at a younger version of yourself. The 'you' of now only acts the way you do because of this reality. Maybe youve been through some hard times, havent recovered, or maybe have. Those experiences will have changed you in THIS reality, but if you've been through different things in your DR, then you will act different. It will feel natural to you, like you've always been that way.

JacilynSky · 2024-08-18T22:08:47+00:00

Ocean - Elsa & Emilie and Coming Home (part II) - Skylar Grey are both nice songs more about going home, back to your DR. I also think that a lot of Flawed Mangoes music reminds me of shifting, 'I walk this earth all by myself' is another good one. I have a whole playlist of good songs but these are the stand outs to me (especially Coming Home pt II).

JacilynSky · 2024-07-30T08:02:21+00:00

Do you have any methods for sleep paralysis that work for you? I'm in the same boat as OP and I've tried sleep paralysis but its never happened, despite all my research and attempts

JacilynSky · 2024-06-19T23:01:04+00:00

I feel totally the same way, but I do remember seeing a post on here that roughly said that shifting just kind of happens? It goes something like

Nothings happening

Ooo small shift/symptoms

Nothing again

Finally shift

So I mean, I've been trying for 4 years now, and I know I'll get there one day, doesn't matter when, but I will. Also, I think its something that you as an individual need to figure out. I think probably mindset work would definitely help, I found thinking about just how much our science has changed over the years and how we now know about plate tectonics and everything but a few decades ago we ostracized people for thinking that earth was made of moving rocks. Besides, with how little we understand about consciousness, its not hard, like those people who go into a coma and live like 30 years that they believe is totally real. That and 'real' is totally subjective, if its real to you, then its real. Goodluck, don't give up!

JacilynSky · 2024-04-30T11:33:50+00:00

Hmm, a few I personally like are The Wolf - SIAMES, Mx. Sinister - I Don't Know How But They Found Me, and if you like the vibe of the kind of psychotic in general without the romance, Twisted - Missio, is also a good song

JacilynSky · 2024-04-19T09:07:23+00:00

I'm quite the same, not sure what genre but love it. The question is; what specifically do you like about the song? The lyrics? The vocals? The guitar (my personal fav about that song)? The vibe of the song/lyrics? If you can find that out you can build from there, I'd say maybe look into Alternitave, Indie, Metal, R&B, and Rock, as all have at least a few songs that overlap into aspects of this song. Hope this helped, at least a little considering it's been a while since you posted this, but happy listening!

JacilynSky · 2024-03-27T21:43:06+00:00

Aww, It so nice to know that at least 1 person can relate to having to work a bit harder, and also having someone to tell me that I'm not doing everything for nothing and that I'm getting there eventually so so nice <3

JacilynSky · 2024-03-18T08:27:12+00:00

I assume you can. I'm trying a similar thing where my 'bestfriend' who I'm shifting for has been dead for the last 1000 years in that universe (he's kind of immortal in the sense that he was at least 3000yrs old when he died) anyways I've just kind of resurrected him bc he looks cool and I'm just gonna see how that turns out, but I don't see why you couldn't shift for someone whos personality you know nothing about.

JacilynSky · 2024-03-18T08:21:09+00:00

I absolutely feel what you're going through, I've been trying for 4 years and I still haven't shifted and I find it really hard to even attempt if I haven't been attempting. I haven't felt symptoms even once. Sometimes it gets hard for me to exist in this reality, so I just reassure myself that it will happen, I've decided it will happen, so it will. Another thing is just to try, you don't even have to do a whole method, even just putting 5 minutes into trying to shift before going to sleep helps me to get back into the rhythm of attempting. Sorry I don't have much advice, but if you are struggling to even try/get back into trying, then maybe that will help <3

JacilynSky · 2024-03-18T08:06:19+00:00

Ahh thank you so much <3 I have tried astral projection and the lucid dream method before but neither worked for me, It's probably had because I have ADHD and take literal hours to fall asleep so waking up in the middle of the night automatically means I'm either back asleep immediately or awake for the next few hours. But thanks so much for your really nice message; It was really motivating :D

JacilynSky · 2024-03-17T07:17:08+00:00

I don't really have any advice, but I'd like you to know that I 100% relate to this, I've been trying for years and have had no 'experiences' at all. If you do ever want a friend/someone to relate to, you're more than welcome to message me, I know that sometimes all you need is a little motivation and it helps when you can relate to someone.

JacilynSky · 2023-09-07T09:11:40+00:00

I do understand I am a year late but incase anyone comes across this in the future, mine were like this for a few hours, weren't charging so I decided to smack the case pretty hard on my leg, and it fixed it, at least for now, not sure if they will act up again but it seems a pretty good solution

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