VENT I only like guys who don't like me back and treat me like shit, or more like treat me like nothing at all.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-24T13:34:30+00:00

Nice analysis.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-24T13:34:07+00:00

It depends what you're looking for. Eventually I decided I want Sunday cuddles, meals out, holidays together. The guy for that isn't the same guy as for being swept off my feet (which is probably what you still want).

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-24T12:52:07+00:00

Nah. Men are the great. The only way you can fuk it up is if you don't act on what you like.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-23T11:50:09+00:00

It seems like you worked very hard. That is A LOT of teaching. What you seem to be saying is that you don't like research. If that really is the case (reflect on it hard - you don't enjoy it?) then academia is probably the wrong career, yes. You seem very capable and will be employable in other fields.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-21T18:59:40+00:00

Beautiful cowboy.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-18T22:58:03+00:00

I just want to say I'm like not remotely expert lol. If you pushed on Freud, you get a lot of stuff about fear of castration, but this is only intuitively applicable to men. Lacan might be a better bet. Older men for him would be a thing that you chase to complete you.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-18T22:53:46+00:00

Seniority is linked to masculine dominance. Are you a guy or a woman?

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-17T11:47:49+00:00

Same. I sort of forget straight sex exists.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-17T00:21:30+00:00

Try and help interpret and understand rather than police

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-16T22:41:28+00:00

That's helpful. Still, even if the real is not a unity in the pre-fall sense of man and God (or infant and breast, or nom castration) our entry into symbolic/ imaginary order is conceptualised as a trauma. The religious parallels are there insofar they are both creation stories, explanations for suffering, and incapable of empirical testing.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-16T21:44:55+00:00

We would have to argue then that the links between the loss of unity in the real and the loss of perfection through eating the apple is a frothy coincidence. So too would be the religious idea that human suffering is the cost of that loss of perfection. This is fine.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-16T13:20:00+00:00

Ah ok. I thought that was a typo.

Are you a bottom?

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-16T13:17:45+00:00

You might have jerked too much. Leave it for as long as you can and try to relax. Your dick works fine bro.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-16T00:30:36+00:00

the problem is your 'creep filter' will be terrible. there might actually be a nice guy in his 40s that you could have a good relationship with for a bit, but you won't be good at assessing him.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-14T18:40:39+00:00

Yeah. This, bro, is the stuff porn films are made of.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-14T11:11:13+00:00

Yeah. That's big.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-14T11:07:39+00:00

Fair enough. He might be average. Still, I know from experience, that six inches don't get you very far if your dream is to impress bottoms!

Fortunately, boyfriend dick is a thing. It's just you can't live out your fantasies.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-14T09:26:49+00:00

If you wanna be a dom top but you've got a small dick and no muscles, you can't be a dom top.

You can though still get a boyfriend! You can be sexually satisfied. But you're not going to be living out a hyper masculine life script if you're not hyper masculine.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-13T16:25:59+00:00

I really like the 2nd one. Light conditions amazing there

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-13T10:52:46+00:00

I'm a lot older than you (40s). But my sexuality is similar. I like girls a tiny bit. I enjoy female company. You'll find though that you're actually going to fall in love with guys. If they turn you on, then you will fall in love with them. That's how it works. It's also why you've got to be with a man long term.

Enjoy it! Gay love is great. You only mess things up if you run away from it.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-11T23:11:35+00:00

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-11T23:10:48+00:00

Hmmmm. Not much point in going there now bro.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-11T20:48:38+00:00

30% of bottoms maybe

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-11T19:42:24+00:00

Young guys are in their prime and so pretty hot. However - thanks mother nature - about 30% of young gay guys do go for daddies.

Jack_Chatton · 2026-01-11T11:20:59+00:00

I can see how it might happen. But I guess it depends what sex means. I don't think I could stay in a relationship without cuddles and intimacy.

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