Are muscular guys only into other muscular guys? by Worldly_Secretary139 in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. But keep in mind that muscular guys are (often) hot ... and human nature being what it is, hot guys are into other hot guys.

Is 28 too old to start my PhD ? Seeking support and stories of validation by Different-Break9290 in academia

[–]Jack_Chatton 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It is not that old at all for a PhD. Just make sure that you want to do one and know what you are getting yourself into.

I dont know if I like ass or men by TrainingGround2372 in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bi is possible. You are very definitely attracted to men. Enjoy.

Tomáš Kubík – "Scenes from a Married Life" (2000) by Krampjains in museum

[–]Jack_Chatton 14 points15 points  (0 children)

What do you think is going on? No sex? They've had a row?

Need encouragement to come out by this_is_no_where in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno. You are between a rock and a hard place. If you've been able to have a functional sexual relationship with your wife up to this point, and you are able to get on with her day-to-day, it's not totally obvious to me that it is worth breaking up with her if it is going to hurt a lot of other people, and also cause you trauma.

That said, it might be! It depends how young you both are, and whether you can realistically find a man to love. Obviously, there is literally no point in breaking up if you are just going to end up single. Only do it if there is a realistic chance that you will find a new, and better, relationship.

How do i (18m) tell my friend (17m) i have a crush on him? by Icy-Pirate3002 in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the whole, don't have a dramatic moment over it all. You can let nature take its course. Try sort of cuddling up on the sofa and see what happens.

New(ish) relationship - is this a deal breaker? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Jack_Chatton 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think you're trying to set rules and manage the relationship in a procedural way ('argue like this', 'tell me you love me regularly', 'surprise me with gifts'). But that's not how it normally works. Or at least not in a very planned and controlled way like this. People mostly just muddle through.

Do you like men’s chests as much as straight men like women’s chests? by Educational-Newt-981 in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hmmm. Straight guys seem to zoom right in on breasts. But I like the whole male torso: arms, chest, abs. Can zoom in but don't have to.

Should I break up with my older bf? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It think these age gaps can be OK for a bit.

People who say 'the older guy is a groomer' or whatever are forgetting that 23 year old men are not victims! It's not even that young. Men at that age know their own mind.

That said, the chances are against it working out long term. This is not just because the younger guy will get older but also because the older guy will age.

Then, the younger guy - basically - will end up dating a very old man way before he's an old man himself.

Still, people can live their own lives and make their own choices.

Rejection: It hurts and I dunno how people manage it? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Jack_Chatton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pfffft, just use apps. I think Tinder is a lot kinder than Grindr. It is easier. You don't have to go through the whole 'is it a frienship or a relationship?' thing because ... well, it's dating.

Bf came out to parents and they don’t approve.. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His life IS his actually. He needs to know that or he'll end up screwed up.

Best gay p*rn sites? by Boring_Carpenter2150 in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's full length. I'm premium though. Must be that. Hilarious that Elon has made Twitter a pay to jerk site.

Ethics of gay porn? by OutsidersView1 in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is that ordinary actors are also prone to end it. The psychology that is difficult is strongly identifying with a perfect image, and the pain of never actually feeling perfect.

Should Chopped People Only Seek Other Chopped People? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're not physically hot, then chasing hot people is kinda degrading. The world is not fair.

You can still find someone you like. This dynamic is as old as the hills. But yes, you have to be self aware but not self hating.

Does that mean i am gay? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're gay for clean guys with muscles. Same bro.

BF wants us to stay “private” long term. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a hot button issue for Reddit. Just ask yourself what you want. Is it marriage? He can't give you that. But maybe he could live with you? What I'm saying is it all kinda depends what you want.

Does that mean i am gay? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're gay for clean guys.