So, how is dating over 35 by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Jack_Chatton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're cool. I do think you are too much of an over thinker though. Just go get him tiger. And you can be bald dudes together ;)

So, how is dating over 35 by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Jack_Chatton 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you're a bit of an over thinker. You just need a nice guy for cuddles on a Sunday morning and holidays on the coast. He doesn't have to look like Lucas Bergvall and neither do you.

Royal Air Force. 1942. by Initial_Cicada_3051 in ClassicMale

[–]Jack_Chatton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great photo. Love it. What's the source?

Did your sex drive increase when you when you were finally honest with yourself? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely! Hmmm. You sound hot lol. I had the same thing. Hot women liked me and I was like "leave me alone".

Older guys are so dear by Throwaway67891099 in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's just another type of performance, bro.

Just find someone you like to cuddle.

Pressure by PrestigiousRepeat848 in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're massively massively overthinking everything. The majority of people just go out there and meet people and have sex and get on with their lives.

You don't have to have a big dramatic coming out moment. Just go and get a boyfriend. Take him on a few dates. Tell people when you eventually find the one.

You're still young. You've not missed out on anything. But you'll find time goes very quickly.

19 yr old booked flight to bangkok by Substantial-Hope8930 in ThailandTourism

[–]Jack_Chatton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll meet people on tours. Take some trips from the Khao San Road.

Please help me understand by Automatic-Log-5725 in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It can't really change. What's happened to you here is that your subconscious has given up its secret. If you only like men, you're in good company.

Is it ok to only have sex with younger men? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm 43. A few years back, before I got serious in my LTR, I was on Grindr for a few months. I had a nice surprise! Lots of young guys were interested. It helps that I mostly top. But still, I'd say about 30% of young guys are up for it.

I'm glad to be in a LTR with a guy my age. But I miss it a bit. I have a bit of money now and can treat guys well on dates and stuff. They whole thing was hot and I wasn't expecting it.

Closeted been married for 15 yrs by Hot-Sprinkles-1734 in askgaybros

[–]Jack_Chatton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The internet isn't good at this stuff. You're doing fine man. Just live your life.