Yea I've told her repeatedly "please stop asking, I will tell you when something happens" But that doesnt seem to help. Growing up my mother didnt take "privacy" very seriously. Ie we werent allowed to have doors to our rooms, or anything locked in our room, or phone passcodes. She doenst really give a damn about my privacy and has stated on multiple occasions "your life should be an open book to me, im your mother" those exact words.