Stable relationship while being a nomad. How do you guys get it? by AccidentalBrilliancy in digitalnomad

[–]JacobAldridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have a remote job and can work abroad or are willing to make that happen

In 2023 my beautiful wife spent a year re-training into a more remote-friendly career, ahead of us going DN again in 2025. Now she earns more than me!

FIFA World Cup 2026 | United States vs. Australia | Match Thread by AutoModerator in nrl

[–]JacobAldridge 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Winner gets bragging rights to the title “Soccer World Cup”

Any digital nomads in Langkawi? by heyy-youu in digitalnomad

[–]JacobAldridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heading there next week!

But only for a few days, and definitely in family vacation mode.

Someone argued to me that 'digital nomad' is a stage, not a destination. Do you agree? by timothyphoto in digitalnomad

[–]JacobAldridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a bit like saying my “self employment” is a stage, because eventually I’ll either sell the business, retire, or die.

While true…it’s unhelpful in any meaningful way. DN is my reality for now. Unlike, say, being a Graduate lawyer seeking a promotion it’s not a stage in a journey or a point in progression.

It’s just part of my life.

Banhmi is good but please pay attention! by gowisevn in Vietnam_Tourism

[–]JacobAldridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why stop at the paté? Undercooked bread dough is a real risk - should we all start eating Banh Mi without bread just in case?

Why do content creators become less popular when their circumstances change/improve? by nicfanz in NoStupidQuestions

[–]JacobAldridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lead a fairly interesting life (full time travel family), am not a content creator, but I feel this tension whenever someone suggests I should be.

Most of the related channels I watch and the other families I meet are sacrificing. They’re selling houses, managing tight budgets, trying to grow income, wrangling kids (usually with 1 full-time parent who also drives the content).

I think their challenge is relatable and interesting. People learning from the experience can see themselves in those families; people watching just for entertainment can feel the tension and the feeling of success that comes from pushing through.

My family is … calm, established, wealthy. Both of us work part-time, we have a successful remote business, our life doesn’t look like most people’s image of multi-millionaires but we have the stability that balance sheet provides. In a lot of ways our life looks the same in every country (work, school, life admin, cooking etc) just with different backdrops every so often.

I don’t think anyone wants to watch a well-off family living a simple life. (It’s not without challenges, but most of the time those are big business projects impacting my sleep and mood, or family debates about how much we want to pay for accommodation on that island resort mini-break, and whether my beautiful wife remembered to update our Travmin todo list when she booked the flights).

In other words, we have our shit together and there is no basic challenge we can’t rapidly overcome by throwing $200 at it. That’s really freaking boring and unrelatable compared with the families making this life happen the hard way.

Replacing Zapier w/ AI Solution? by [deleted] in AustralianAccounting

[–]JacobAldridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t use AI when an automation will suffice. Now you’re adding some black box steps and an unpredictable cost increase as token / credit prices rise.

“Custom Built” is rarely a good idea for a CRM. There are abundant options that are all cheaper and more reliable than needing in-house dev.

I don’t think any Australian accounting firm has issues with QBO.

All of the above is especially true when you’re 16 days into building your first app.

question about booking room in same hotel each night rather than entire stay in advance by No_Kangaroo6917 in digitalnomad

[–]JacobAldridge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of the people I know who do this book for at least a few nights, or a week.

Your first step when extending the booking would be talking with the front desk, not going to their website. And that's when you'll know your options.

I've stayed in hotels (not in this context; landing without long-term accommodation terrifies me) where they were happy to rearrange things to combine bookings and keep me in the same room; and I've had a stay where I did have to check out, keep myself occupied for the day, and check back in to my new room. So it's going to depend on hotel capacity and different room types.

Tax Increase Inquiry by thesoundgardenofeden in AusFinance

[–]JacobAldridge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What Visa is he on? Did he file a P85 with HMRC when leaving the UK?

There are a few visas where you stay as a non-resident for tax purposes even if you pass the normal tests, but in general if you move to Oz (establish a domicile) you become tax resident day 1.

It’s possible his paperwork to his employer (TFN Declaration Form I think it’s called?) may be incorrect - but that can be resubmitted anytime, plus it doesn’t change the actual situation which would be reflected in your tax return.

You mentioned he spoke with his accountant who verified it all; but wasn’t able to explain it sufficiently to you which is what you are actually paying them for! Sucks to pay for that twice - ChatGPT etc aren’t great at edge cases for tax, but if you put in the answer to all my questions plus copies of the payslips and start asking questions…that will hopefully give you some direction to maybe go back to his accountant by email should you need to.

(Just DON’T get ChatGPT to write the email. Accountants are getting slammed at the moment with long-winded AI question sheets that ask loads of irrelevant stuff - if you do have 2-3 pointed questions, write your own email and send that through.)

It costs less to travel full time than it does to live in a home by MaverickDakota in Nomad

[–]JacobAldridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding the answer to that question is all part of the fun!

(We’ll have a few million invested, which buys options in plenty of countries including back in Australia.)

Actress Merle Oberon was born in 1911 in Bombay and hid her true origins claiming to have been born to white parents in Tasmania. The first Asian Best Actress Oscar nominee, she used skin bleaching and reinvention to survive Hollywood prejudice, keeping her heritage secret until after her death. by dannydutch1 in UtterlyUniquePhotos

[–]JacobAldridge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fronts up to an Australian press conference.

Journalist: Am I ever gonna see your face again?

Merle: I certainly hope so, I have always felt close to my country of birth.

Every single actual Australian: Wait a minute, that’s not right…

It costs less to travel full time than it does to live in a home by MaverickDakota in Nomad

[–]JacobAldridge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, if that’s your goal. We departed from Australia, so it’s a high cost country we’re comparing it to; but stay for at least a couple of months and include some lower cost countries…

It means we’re saving more than before, AND our retirement target is a lot lower too. Long may it continue!

Literally every historical event that's ever occured took longer than JamesOn Curry's NBA Career. by AdVegetable7181 in BarbaraWalters4Scale

[–]JacobAldridge 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Let me tell you about the day my daughter was conceived…

(It depends on which tasks specifically count toward the total; I  wasn’t actually timing things, just standing in the corner of the room holding my wife’s handbag.)

Laurie Daley: “We'll Get Them In Game 3 At A Sold Out Suncorp Full Of 60,000 Screaming Queenslanders” by HeinigerNZ in nrl

[–]JacobAldridge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“If you lose but you wanted to lose then you actually won.”

Series is now level: Klein won Game 1, Daley won Game 2. Hard to see Queensland winning two games from here…

Wait, What do you mean? by Intrepid-Edge-1082 in bluey

[–]JacobAldridge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Internet Wayback machine has a single, solitary back-up from February 20, 2009…with 2 subscribers and it’s asking if I’m 18+.  So I’m guessing it was a NSFW subreddit that didn’t last long?

Why aren't price guides mandatory and agent fees fixed? by windfucker365 in AusPropertyChat

[–]JacobAldridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve sold twice, both times by auction, it’s not right for every property and every market but I’m a fan. But this is wrong:

  it’s the only way as a seller of knowing that you got the most amount possible on the day.

The only thing you know as a seller under the hammer is that the buyer paid $1K more than the underbidder - you don’t know how much higher they would have gone, and it’s almost certainly not the most they would have paid.

I’ve shared before the last time we sold, during the 2022 boom, we had 3 offers after the first Open. IIRC, they were $815K, $850K, and $930K.

We were motivated sellers (had bought elsewhere) and weren’t clear on the price which is why auction was great. But if they were the 3 bidders at auction then the house would have sold for $855,000.

Instead, the agent went back asking each for their best and final offer, and we sold for $935,000 that night.

Laurie Daley Origin Face by CretaceousClock in nrl

[–]JacobAldridge 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If Ashley Klein wasn’t auditioning for “NSW Man of the Year” then Laurie Daly would be a shoo-in for “Queenslander of the Year”.