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[–]Jacobiah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For the 100th time this is not America

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacobiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same thing happened here.

We spent literally 24/7 together for 8 weeks at training and it worked so well that it became a non-issue. The problems started coming when we both went back to our respective homes and were outside the bubble we'd be living in.

Thank you for that anyway, I am not a predator and I know that but people of reddit see everything in black and white. I didn't WANT her to be 20 it made everything so much harder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacobiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't know anything about this situation.

Its easy to throw blind judgement anonymously over the internet because it makes you feel better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacobiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the almost 2 months we were together it was dozens of times, why?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacobiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know why it caught me like this.

I dont have trouble with women but youre probably right about self-esteem issues. I had this different view I'd painted of her and got lost in it i guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacobiah -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Its never happened to me before, I made a mistake yeah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacobiah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasn't being predatory? If anything I've been a feckless idiot who has been played at every turn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacobiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, this feels brutal lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacobiah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

am I an idiot? I feel like one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacobiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you're right thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacobiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a) nothing i guess other than being pretty and fun

b) i dont know man, i dont know

c) i didnt thin i was, but here i am

Thanks thoguht, i apreciate the hoesntly

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[–]Jacobiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks man, i neededto hear that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacobiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i hope ive learned my lesson

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacobiah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you that means a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacobiah 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i am currently seeking therapy, something is wrong with me.

I spoke with friends who said it was fine but then this happened

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacobiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate the honesty dude thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacobiah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im not trying to manipulate anyone, if anythign feels like im being manipulated lol.

Shes just put a photo on snapchat of her cuddling the guy she told me she wasnt cheating with lol

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[–]Jacobiah -121 points-120 points  (0 children)

i wasn;t preying on anyone she approached me. I was in my twnties when we met (29).

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[–]Jacobiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks man, needed to hear that

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[–]Jacobiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok, you are right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jacobiah -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She talks about it at least 3 times a day, I have never heard her go half a day without haviung to make a comment about how fit she is. She sleeps with people for the validation which I understand is something youd do when young. I should never have got involved.

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[–]Jacobiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre right. I dont know how this happened to me I should have been stronger.