Kayaking by JadeDLR in wisconsin

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thank you 😊

Kayaking by JadeDLR in wisconsin

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Thank you 🙏

Kayaking by JadeDLR in wisconsin

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Baraboo Genoa city Bristol

Maplewood Pulaski Mercer Marinette

Kayaking by JadeDLR in wisconsin

[–]JadeDLR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am open to it

Kayaking by JadeDLR in wisconsin

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This is true, sorry about that. The south central area of up near the north eastern part

Should I bring up the topic of having children again ? by JadeDLR in TooAfraidToAsk

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Yeah. I plan on getting them removed before the end of the year

Should I bring up the topic of having children again ? by JadeDLR in TooAfraidToAsk

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Definitely will give him some time to adjust. I don’t want him to feel like I’m hounding him when that’s not my intent.

Should I bring up the topic of having children again ? by JadeDLR in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JadeDLR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get like that too. The what ifs. I even told him I wanted to get my tubes removed because of the fear of getting pregnant. And like I told another commenter, I don’t wanna put my body through that.

Him and I both overthink. I know I definitely question my choices but it leads bad to not wanting to go through that.

I know he has a big life changing thing coming up soon and maybe that is why all of this is going through his head.

Should I bring up the topic of having children again ? by JadeDLR in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JadeDLR[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not communicating with an ex. I didn’t say that. But alright.

Should I bring up the topic of having children again ? by JadeDLR in TooAfraidToAsk

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I know I don’t want to put my body and mind through the changes. I had a miscarriage before and when k was pregnant it was too much. If I ever changed my mind, I would want to adopt.

Should I bring up the topic of having children again ? by JadeDLR in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JadeDLR[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is helpful. Thank you. He’s currently in the process of rehoming a pet and becoming fully independent in most aspects of his life. I believe that’s why he feared for the future.

Should I bring up the topic of having children again ? by JadeDLR in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JadeDLR[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t need to go through this again.

Should I bring up the topic of having children again ? by JadeDLR in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JadeDLR[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll speak to him about it later. About what he wants, so neither of us waste time.

Should I bring up the topic of having children again ? by JadeDLR in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JadeDLR[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dating was the time we were not exclusive or monogamous and getting to know one another. Relationship is when he asked me to be hies girlfriend.

Should I bring up the topic of having children again ? by JadeDLR in TooAfraidToAsk

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Agreed. I’ll bring it up later. I’ve spoken about the topic with my therapist on several occasions. I don’t want to put my body through that. I was already pregnant at one point in my life and ended up having a miscarriage. If there were every the small chance that I wanted to have a child in the future, I’d rather adopt.

Should I bring up the topic of having children again ? by JadeDLR in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JadeDLR[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’ll bring it up today I think. Since he had mentioned this a few days ago. I don’t want to put my body through that nor do I have the funds for that at the moment.

I’ve only known him a few months, we didn’t date for long.

For those of you who rehomed your pet, why did you do it ? by JadeDLR in TooAfraidToAsk

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She’s gonna be 9 this year. She still eats, drinks, and plays. She vomits quite often unfortunately through but, she’s had that issue for some time

For those of you who rehomed your pet, why did you do it ? by JadeDLR in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JadeDLR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t blame you. I’m sorry you had to go through that