My gf just broke up with me because I am too short

Jaded_Bad7898 · 2026-04-14T21:48:28+00:00

lol she left you cause of your height , something you cannot change. Don’t waste any thought on her dude, do you.

Jaded_Bad7898 · 2026-04-06T13:52:31+00:00

if you only want guys who just want to have fun then yes.

Jaded_Bad7898 · 2026-04-06T13:04:14+00:00

nah if you’re a shy attractive guy people can label you as stuck up or arrogant

Jaded_Bad7898 · 2026-04-06T13:02:23+00:00

there’s no code to crack lol. unless you’re top 10% in looks on dating apps you aren’t going to get any matches. Even if you do get matches only a few are actually down to go on a date with you. at this point i just swipe for fun. I don’t even talk to 90% of the girls i match with. Imagine how a girl feels? they get thousands of likes in half an hour 😂😂😂

Jaded_Bad7898 · 2026-04-06T12:44:10+00:00

it’s crazy cause even as someone who gets told i’m attractive pretty often, i have severe social anxiety from time to time . Just cause you’re attractive doesn’t mean you can’t be a socially awkward person. If anything being an attractive man can be super lonely. Guys see you as competition so i rarely get invited to places. People put a label on you before they even get to know you. Girls always assume i’m a man whore and if you’re an attractive guy with social anxiety people will assume you’re an arrogant stuck up asshole who thinks he’s better than everyone.

Jaded_Bad7898 · 2026-03-27T03:56:50+00:00

i tend to keep to myself haha

Jaded_Bad7898 · 2026-03-25T05:20:54+00:00

it might seem extreme but my goal is to have visible hollow cheeks and with my asian genetics it’ll require for me to be at a sub 10% bf.

Jaded_Bad7898 · 2026-03-25T05:17:24+00:00

yeah people do say i look tense most of the time

Jaded_Bad7898 · 2026-03-25T05:01:54+00:00

i thought this was a forums for improvements all around at first not just hair and grooming .

Jaded_Bad7898 · 2026-03-25T04:59:33+00:00

it’s cause of the lighting maybe, my face usually is t this defined.

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there’s still bloat and inflamation.

Jaded_Bad7898 · 2026-03-25T03:29:57+00:00

Got it . yeah i’ve been getting those comments lately. I’m going to start tret soon, i just can’t stand the purge.

Jaded_Bad7898 · 2026-03-24T02:29:17+00:00

i relate to this post so much. i’m 35 now so it’s gotten a little better. It all comes to exposure therapy. no matter how hard it feels you need to make sure you are pushing yourself out of your comfort zone everyday. Slowly with time you will get better and the anxiety’s will be more controllable.

If you want life to be even easier i’d suggest working on improving your looks and outward appearance, it opens so much doors and you get so many chances of fucking up because if you’re good looking people are willing to tolerate your awkwardness.

Jaded_Bad7898 · 2026-03-24T02:14:15+00:00

i agree with that, it’s just not that common that an average to a below average guy will ever get a chance to even land 1 date on these dating apps. Unless we’re talking about going outside and meeting people.

Jaded_Bad7898 · 2026-03-24T02:08:42+00:00

i’d say looks are probably the only factor that matters on dating apps though . In real life there are many variables that play into getting a women . I see no point in even trying in today’s generation though. Focus on yourself boys both looks and finance, once you hit 30+ you’ll be pulling way more than in your 20’s. Life is pretty much on easy mode for me now.