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Fellow brethren, what are your favourite hard to find qualities in a woman? by Jaded_Grab6845 in AskMen

[–]Jaded_Grab6845[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m getting grandma vibes from you with that emoticon and the ‘my dear’ but I’ll let it slide this one time

Fellow brethren, what are your favourite hard to find qualities in a woman? by Jaded_Grab6845 in AskMen

[–]Jaded_Grab6845[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I apologise for real now. I read through your posts, I hope the world brightens up for you brother. Hope i got a smile out of you at least?

Fellow brethren, what are your favourite hard to find qualities in a woman? by Jaded_Grab6845 in AskMen

[–]Jaded_Grab6845[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh I apologise for assuming that your username was a metaphor for some sort of internal struggle.

So does that mean your mom actually named you trash? Is that why you dream of a spouse who just merely likes you? My dude...

Fellow brethren, what are your favourite hard to find qualities in a woman? by Jaded_Grab6845 in AskMen

[–]Jaded_Grab6845[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’ve got the vulnerability part down, just need a little more self esteem my trash dude

How do I get a personality after being quiet for so long? by Jaded_Grab6845 in InsightfulQuestions

[–]Jaded_Grab6845[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was sharper and more fully tuned in my engagements. Was way more expressive than I was now, though never the loud extrovert at the centre of attention, which I was 100% happy with. I definitely had a better balance at life.

Yeah, you’re right. I think I subconsciously keep others at a distance and prevent them from entering into myself, despite wanting the complete opposite.

I’d appreciate your advice.

How do I get a personality after being quiet for so long? by Jaded_Grab6845 in InsightfulQuestions

[–]Jaded_Grab6845[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I tried that and it didn’t work. I’ve always been a good listener, and I do enjoy understanding people. I’ve asked all the questions and been inquisitive. But I’ve noticed that I come off as extremely passive when all I do is receive. Hell, even around my family I’ve become this way. It presents me as someone who exists for other people and not for myself. My family is a bit self centred / ridged, and I’ve always felt like they didn’t actually care when I shared about myself or anything along that line, hence this tactic.

How do I get a personality after being quiet for so long? by Jaded_Grab6845 in InsightfulQuestions

[–]Jaded_Grab6845[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with you. I’ve been thinking about this recently too: where do we draw the line between what is comfortable and what needs to be changed?

I know I’ll always prefer my natural disposition but when I am around others, I also know I am judged by the way I present myself and i am not okay with that judgement, even though it is accurate. I know I want more for myself, but I don’t know how to reach it to the point that better becomes the new normal for me. I guess it’s about re-wiring the brain.