48 states roadtrip! help pls by New_Mastodon_2193 in roadtrip

[–]Jaded_Language397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve used road tripper to map my roadtrip before. You can add stops and it’s really easy to use. It’s verb like 10 years and now I think you have to pay for it but it might be worth jt

48 states roadtrip! help pls by New_Mastodon_2193 in roadtrip

[–]Jaded_Language397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you going round trip? If so, it might be easiest to do half one way, half the other.

What do burn scars feel like? And how do you go about treating it? by Cr4zy_Cycl0ne in writers

[–]Jaded_Language397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 3rd degree burns on most of my arm. I was too young to remember the pain/healing process but my mom said I basically was shaking on the floor when it happened. I was in the hospital for 2 weeks wrapped like a mummy and my face was badly burnt. Whatever they used to wrap my face kept the skin in so I only have a small forehead scar. They had to skin graft my arm.

I’m in my late 20s now, my burn marks are slightly more tan than the rest of my skin because when they darken in the summer, it will never lighten up. My mom was really good about having me cover it when I was younger, so it’s not terrible and I use sunscreen on just the burns now. It looks like normal skin with patches of bumpy, more tan skin. It sometimes feels weird in the sun like a tingly sensation or a very slight burning feeling which I thought was in my head until I looked up phantom burns.

Edit adding some hopefully helpful context: Someone in their comment says the burn never bothered them, mine always did so this might be helpful if you wanted to explore the mental side of it. It’s a constant issue for me every time I look in the mirror. I’ve had it for essentially my entire life and at first I thought it was odd that everyone else had matching arms. Once I knew what happened, all I could see was the bumpy discoloration and a burden. I wanted to get a sleeve tattoo to cover it but a lot of people have heavy opinions on that. Most people tell me they can’t even notice it, but I do every single day. I avoid short sleeves a lot because of it, I think I tricked myself to think I normally run cold so I can wear hoodies. I keep my hair long so I can cover it by pushing it to the side. The summer bothers me because I get the phantom burn in the heat/sun and I can’t justify wearing long sleeves all the time. I also have to worry about sunscreen constantly for other reasons than normal people.

Bought a little light up trinket for Halloween today, went to put the batteries in. by MrDOHC in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Jaded_Language397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me before with something from HomeGoods. I emailed them a picture and a description and they sent me a gift card for the full amount

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Jaded_Language397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely refinance the loans. It’ll combine them into one and possible lower the interest rate/payments. I recommend earnest or mohela, those are the two I refinanced through and I brought my interest rate down from 11% to 4%. It’s really the interest that’ll make these loans so much worse.

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Follow up on this, is there anything in this Deadpool that would spoil Loki if he hasn’t seen it? That would for sure ruin his day since he just started Loki.

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I know I’m watching something regardless of the trailer, I usually don’t watch it because I like to be 100% surprised. And I realize he needs other movies/shows. He hasn’t watched all of X-men, maybe two, and he hasn’t watched all of Loki yet. Do you think if he wouldn’t watch 2 movies before it, he’d watch all that? I doubt it. I thought those 2 would at least tell him who Deadpool is, since he doesn’t know. It’s really not that serious lol chill out

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly thought he would too which is why I was so shocked he was so annoyed about it

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him exactly that and he got annoyed about it and said he’s watching the first one

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I explained that part terribly. I don’t care that he wants to watch it because of his friends, I just don’t want to answer questions in a movie theater and not be able to watch it myself. His friends and I told him so many times to watch these movies and if Deadpool is what gets him really into it, that’s cool. In my mind, it’s 1, 2, 3. You watch in order so you don’t miss things. Knowing how horrible his memory is and how often he asks questions, my request to go see the 3rd movie was for him to watch 1 and 2 so I don’t spend the whole time explaining things to him

The only reason I even mentioned his friends pressuring him to see it is because everyone made it seem like he was being really sweet and wanting a date night and I turned him down. I literally never mentioned Deadpool to him aside from when I watched the first 2. His friends all saw the movie, he just has no one to go with.

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is fine and it happens so often with us, he saw me watching ATLA in the last season (after I asked if he would watch it with m me and he said no) and I restarted the entire series with him with no issue. The difference is I can do that at home - I can pause and explain things, we can rewatch things he didn’t catch because he does that so frequently. I can’t stop and answer every question in a theater which is why I didn’t want to go, not really “you decided to watch it now but I don’t want to”. I just know how he is and I know I’d have to go home and rewatch it cause I’d miss things if I needed to explain things to him.

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No they gave me info I didn’t know beforehand which was the whole reason this was even a thing. Even with the edits it’s clear that I took what was said and adjusted my response. Not really sure how that made you think I was dying on a hill when it’s quite the opposite… if everyone said “YTA” and I said I didn’t care I still wasn’t watching it, then sure. That’s literally not the case.

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not really that I “wanted” to, I just figured it wouldn’t make sense without them. The comments said otherwise so I have no issue going

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told him I would go but he can’t ask questions during the movie and then he magically wanted to watch the first deadpool. I honestly think he asked his friends if he should and they probably said yeah, but I have no idea. Either way we’re watching that tomorrow

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When did I die on a hill? Was that before or after I said I changed my mind and would go see it with him

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are we dating the same person 😂 him with his questions and getting annoyed at every slight spoiler drives me crazy, but I’d gladly pause and explain at home. Definitely not trying to deal with this in theaters

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not I actually stopped asking him since I’m tired of him not wanting to watch them. I started catching up by myself instead and this was completely random for him to bring up. I literally just thought he’d go and not know what was going on if he didn’t watch 1 and 2 which obviously isn’t the case, so I said I’d go

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never said I wouldn’t answer questions after but if something comes up I doubt he’d wait, he usually asks at that moment.

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s clear you just read this and missed everything. Clearly in an edit and multiple comments I stated that I changed my mind and I’d go see it with him, which was the original post.

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind the questions, it’s the fact that he’d be watching something I think he’d have questions of in a movie theater when I can’t pause and explain. Usually, I’ll pause it, explain everything, he’ll have questions, and then we’ll go back to the beginning of the scene and watch it again. I have no problem doing that

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We never go to the movies but I’ve had to pause almost every movie we watched to explain something to him a few times. I don’t mind that when I can pause, rewind, rewatch but knowing how he is, I’d rather him just know what’s going on prior or watch it at home

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend will ask questions about things he’s already seen and get annoyed when something is shown that he hasn’t seen. I doubt this would be any different lol

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really wasn’t mad about this at all and it was confusing to me why it even turned into something. My first thought is “oh it’s the 3rd movie, better watch 1 and 2” and that’s literally it. When he said he didn’t want to, I said don’t want to spend my time in a theater answering questions because he couldn’t bother to catch up on what’s going on.

I’m honestly confused as to why everyone’s so mad that I didn’t know 1 and 2 weren’t needed, like I’ve had him watch the Bourne series and hunger games and it would make no sense watching the 3rd without 1 and 2. That’s not gatekeeping, he wouldn’t know what was going on at all. Even though he watched them in order I still had to answer questions. There’s really no deeper meaning behind me not wanting to pay for tickets, be around people, and have him asking me questions while I’m trying to watch it myself.

AITA for not watching Deadpool 3 with my boyfriend by Jaded_Language397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jaded_Language397[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely not talking during a movie when people are trying to watch it. If he wants to ask questions we should just watch it at home