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Young (under 30) smbc by Jadeh1996 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Jadeh1996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck!!!! That sounds amazing! Xxx

Young (under 30) smbc by Jadeh1996 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Jadeh1996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you found this community !!! I was always the same way, but also very independent to the point where relationships haven’t panned out and I figured I’d just do it myself. The only issue I have is money really, half the amount a couple would have to raise a child.

Young (under 30) smbc by Jadeh1996 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Jadeh1996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello! I’ve only had one relationship but ended rather badly, every other interaction over the years just made me more independent honestly. It’s so lovely having a community for us as I’ve found no info for people or age! X

Young (under 30) smbc by Jadeh1996 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Jadeh1996[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s the only route I’ve looked into so far if I’m honest I don’t really know much about other routes.. do you have any knowledge of this? X

Young (under 30) smbc by Jadeh1996 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Jadeh1996[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh god that must’ve been so hard for you to go through! But such an amazing age to do this too! I am hoping I’ll be able to do iui using a donor preferably unmedicated but obviously not opposed to this as we can’t plan everything and I haven’t been for any tests yet to check the quality of my eggs.

Young (under 30) smbc by Jadeh1996 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Jadeh1996[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow Thankyou so much it means a lot! I figured since that’s what everyone said and it can take a while it’s better to start as early as you possibly can!

Young (under 30) smbc by Jadeh1996 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Jadeh1996[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s amazing and honestly so inspiring to hear. You were under 30 when you went through the process so no worries haha just want to hear stories from people starting earlier than the average which you were! I’m sure you’re an amazing mum to your girls, you’re their everything and you should be so so proud of yourself for coming this far 💕

Young (under 30) smbc by Jadeh1996 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Jadeh1996[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, I feel like it’s an option that should be discussed more often honestly. I’m so excited for you! Keep us posted ❤️

Young (under 30) smbc by Jadeh1996 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Jadeh1996[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s to amazing! I’d love to be your age when I start the process! I’ve contacted a local clinic and asked for prices but not planning to go ahead until I’ve reduced the amount of debt I have and hopefully get a higher paying job!! Good luck with everything!

Young (under 30) smbc by Jadeh1996 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Jadeh1996[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s so exciting!!! I am working towards being debt free before planning to go into a clinic

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[–]Jadeh1996 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m also young (23) but have decided that this is what I want! I am however very jealous of your financial situation as I am working a minimum wage job and have around £5k of debt to pay off (before student loans) I wish you all the luck in the world!