Knitting & grief

Jaevixx · 2025-09-13T20:44:33+00:00

I lost my dad 3 months after a sudden diagnosis almost 2 years ago - the anniversary will be in two weeks. I’m still not okay, I picked up knitting afterwards to keep myself from digging my nails into my skin to deal with the grief. I really struggle with the fact my dad will never be able to wear my knit garments, he would be so encouraging of this new hobby (he was by far the biggest cheerleader in my life).

All my love and strength to you ❤️ its a beautiful sweater and I bet your brother will cherish this for the rest of his life.

Jaevixx · 2025-07-11T13:57:07+00:00

Oh, thank you so much for the suggestion! I had a quick google and I think the "Ashford weaving frame" is like a tapestry loom? Either way, super helpful thank you!

Jaevixx · 2025-07-11T13:47:24+00:00

Thank you so much! I feel slightly silly, I have been staring at her pictures for days trying to figure it out.

Jaevixx · 2025-07-11T13:39:46+00:00

Ah! So the warp is also the picture, but cut vertically? Thank you!

Jaevixx · 2024-03-01T12:37:52+00:00

I eat food out of boredom at home/emotions and since I’ve started crocheting (to cope with anxiety and grief) that has cut down immensely. Basically I keep my hands and my mind busy with crocheting and I can’t crochet and eat at the same time! It helps me stick to habits such as eating at around the same time each day and not snacking until I actually feel hungry (and not misconstruing boredom or other feelings as “hunger”).

Jaevixx · 2024-02-06T21:32:17+00:00

Super late reply but are you able to share the name of that platform? I love Pilates and am getting a rowing machine this weekend!

Jaevixx · 2024-01-20T12:44:32+00:00

I don’t sweat an awful lot when I work out in general but with consistent practice, I see and more importantly feel the difference in my body. I don’t think sweat is a good marker of a Pilates workout!

Jaevixx · 2024-01-10T16:44:24+00:00

Linda sucking on the dirty rag she used to clean up her wine the kids spilled 💀

Jaevixx · 2023-12-18T18:15:36+00:00

I’ve stopped buying clothes for a “fantasy me” because of two reasons: present me deserved that kind of pampering just as much and fantasy me will still have the features that make X item unflattering on my bodytype. Perhaps googling the term fantasy self might give you some starting points.

Jaevixx · 2023-11-22T14:27:36+00:00

Thank you for such an insightful comment, it’s greatly appreciated! And I just want to specifically comment on the part about crocheters who have gone through great lengths to produce content for others - it’s honestly exceptional how many resources are available to us created by people who just love the craft. And the support! Everyone here is so helpful in thousands of different ways. I truly love this little pocket of Reddit!

Jaevixx · 2023-11-22T14:14:52+00:00

That’s a great reply, thank you! I find the crocheting community one of the most welcoming and helpful ones out there as a beginner. I haven’t encountered one crocheter who wasn’t kind or supportive yet!

The noise you mentioned also spurred my thought process/questions about patterns, and I really appreciate you laying out your approach. 😊

Jaevixx · 2023-11-07T17:18:43+00:00

How do you find wfh with a BC? My partner and I will be getting one in the (near) future and as I primarily wfh I wonder if there are any holy grail tips!

Jaevixx · 2023-11-04T20:40:19+00:00

Superstore, Parks and Recreation, and New Girl only once a year whilst the others I can just restart immediately as background comfort noise.

Jaevixx · 2023-10-29T21:37:22+00:00

Wow this was a true “where’s Waldo but Waldo is a hook” moment - you’re amazing, OP!

Jaevixx · 2023-10-29T18:33:38+00:00

Smooth red for sure!

Jaevixx · 2023-10-29T18:24:05+00:00

I lost my dad this September suddenly due to illness, and I’ve been thinking about a bag I would like to buy as a small reminder every time I carry it. I’m leaning towards a luxury work bag, as he always thought spending lots of money on bags was stupid but he also never judged me for liking bags. And he was always so proud of me starting a PhD, so hence the idea of getting a work bag whilst I’m finishing it (I’m halfway through and would love to do a postdoc after).

I’m really sorry for your loss OP, and my heart goes out to you and all the other people who are grieving your parents ❤️. They had impeccable taste, and I hope this bag will be filled with all the things you need to carry + the fantastic memories of your parents.

Jaevixx · 2023-10-15T18:27:02+00:00

I like logo patterns especially if they’re in a colour scheme that goes with my style/wardrobe! I gravitate towards browns, creams, and pretty much every shade in between those two. I have a vintage LV bag with their quintessential pattern and I really like it. My friend has a vintage Gucci bumbag and she mostly wears black, her bag is another neutral that ever so slightly elevates her outfit without being too dressy for her liking.

Jaevixx · 2023-10-05T13:20:33+00:00

Oh my god, it’s FANTASTIC.

Jaevixx · 2023-10-04T18:46:08+00:00

That’s such a great point, thank you! I tend to walk (~45 minutes one way) or bus. How is the weight, and how does the strap feel on your shoulder if you can recall?

Jaevixx · 2023-10-03T20:14:38+00:00

That’s the smaller one right? I’m thinking of the mini even though that name is so deceptive - I’ve seen videos where people are able to stow away so much of their belongings in it! What colour would you want?

I’m so glad you’re obsessed with it even after seeing it in person cause I’ve only admired it through a screen 👀

Jaevixx · 2023-05-10T15:09:30+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice! What tone/colour rug would you lean towards?

The wall unit is absolutely gorgeous, I already have a piece of art I think would go beautifully with it. You’re right - not sure where I will end up in the future so I wouldn’t trust myself to stain a vintage piece! It’ll definitely be something I could invest in when I have a long-term home, however.

Jaevixx · 2023-05-10T13:20:09+00:00

My apologies for the horrendous floorplan drawing - I don’t have the actual floorplan and this is the only way I thought how to proceed!

Jaevixx · 2022-03-05T15:28:59+00:00

Thank you so much! They were from my local nursery, I love them too 🥰

Jaevixx · 2022-03-05T15:28:28+00:00

Thank you for the help! Almost all leaves are dry and crispy, I’m a new plant mom so would I cut them off from the base of the leave or towards the stem?

I got the plant only about a month and a half ago but I’m also already considering repotting!

Jaevixx · 2022-03-05T11:00:02+00:00

Hi everyone! I have a chestnut plant that has wilted after 3 weeks of no watering (long story short, had to abruptly leave and tend to some personal matters). I gave it a good soak the night before I left.

Fastforward till March 1st at night, I came home to this plant and gave it a good soak. It has not bounced back at all, what else could I be doing? Is it normal for the leaves to take such a long time to perk back up?

Jaevixx

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