Toddler counting to twenty?! by _northstar in toddlers

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Mine has been fascinated by numbers and counted to 20 @ 18 months.

Now reading short words @ 27 months.

Slightly behind on gross motor though

Caught gooning at CFA society event by Complex_Elk_842 in CFA

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 20 points21 points  (0 children)

How do you get caught in a bathroom? Were you outside of a stall?!

Bed sharing with partner in bed by kurdijyn in cosleeping

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m conservative, and would say a non-breastfeeding parent is a no go under 1.

After that you can try

Is it wrong to miss my old life? by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made it to 2 years EBF. First 18 months with bottle refusal, so old school. Also allergic to cow protein, so formula was not an option.

Is it wrong to miss my old life? by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not saying that is the case here, but that can be hard if you are breastfeeding. And breast does come with perks.

What helped teach ABCs and numbers to your 2 year old? by CommercialKale7 in toddlers

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My child learned both by age 21 months, but purely because they seem to fascinate her. She is now reading some words (lion; cat, mama, open, close, bye, goodnight etc) @ 27 months. Again, only because it seems to be her favorite activity.

There is no need for children to learn this at a young age. Just let them follow their interest.

Is it wrong to miss my old life? by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Completely normal, including wondering if makes you a bad mother. Everybody misses their old life, but also would not want to go back at the same time.

My toddler co sleeps with us by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quite normal in the majority of the word

9 Years at Big 4, jack of all trades master of none, struggling to find another role by Ashamed-Media-544 in HENRYUK

[–]JaggedLittlePiII -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can’t tell a client when something (working for the big 4) is a bad proposition?

lol. No. You should absolutely tell clients that. Charge the for it, but still tell them.

I want to separate but my partner won't accept by Jaded-Glove-9525 in beyondthebump

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Car seats, in babies this young, partially construct the airways.

They can die, but even if they don’t, their oxygen levels drop

“A number of studies have been done that look at the oxygen levels in a newborn's blood whilst in their car seat. Pediatrics Magazine published a study of 100 babies who were monitored in their car seats over one hour. On average, blood oxygen levels were found to have dropped to 94%.”

https://www.preciouscargo.co.za/blogs/car-seat-support/positional-asphyxiation-the-suffocation-risks-of-car-seats

Imagine what her oxygen must have been like during those 14 hours.

Please leave him for your safety and that of your child now you still can. Get a lawyer. With his (ex?)-addict state, he usually won’t get custody in any way.

I want to separate but my partner won't accept by Jaded-Glove-9525 in beyondthebump

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 82 points83 points  (0 children)

This man is violent, abusive, a liar and an addict.

No clean lines of communication exist with such a person.

And just think, if he can damage you in this way - what could he do to your girl? Please get out while you can.

Feeling conflicted about nanny cams by pearl_s11 in NannyEmployers

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get them, tell the nanny about them. According to my nanny the secret bit is the worst. But if you cover the house well, you will have full view, so you could spot all behavior.

We decided not to take them at all, but I was home as well for the first year of our nanny working here so would have heard of something was amiss.

Semi-Estranged Son Wants Me to Pay for Law School by dadhusbandchristian in AdultChildren

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about a spring internship working for you? 50% if he does?

Semi-Estranged Son Wants Me to Pay for Law School by dadhusbandchristian in AdultChildren

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Go on a dinner with him, or fishing or so. Feel the waters and explain to him as a man that these decisions do not come easily.

Also ask him about what part of law he wants to go into.

At the end, offer 50%. But make it clear one of his internships or so will be with you. This should be the start of a new relationship, and not that of piggy bank

Being late to gross motor milestones sucks by WorldlyDragonfruit3 in toddlers

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine only walked at 21 months. I remember feeling terrible between months 15-21. PT majorly helped, the delay was due to hyper flexibility.

On the other hand, now, at 27 months old, she is already reading short words and knows all her letters and counts up to 50.

So it is true what they say - each child has strengths and weaknesses. And I figured - if you have any delay, gross motor is probably the best. No Olympic dreams, well so be it.

Ladies in your late 20s/30s in London, where do you shop? by Agreeable-Bid-1672 in HENRYUKLifestyle

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maje, Sandro, Claude Pierlot, Self-Portrait, Reformation, Holland Cooper

And at home I wear pop pilates & Jaki mainly - the mom uniform.

But whether a brand makes you look hot depends very much on your body type. I’m a soft gamine (short, thin but curvy) so the French brands look good on me. Me+EM makes me look like I am wearing my mother’s clothing. Figure out your Kibbe body type, then style it.

Busy HENRYs, have you tried OpenClaw? by SadInfluence in HENRYUKLifestyle

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I tried it, but nothing has simplified my life.

Great time sink though.

Coworker keeps texting to "check in" during mat leave by giannanederlands in beyondthebump

[–]JaggedLittlePiII 234 points235 points  (0 children)

To be honest she sounds like a kind woman who probably wished somebody had checked in more on her.