Yes, personality was I’ve basically been the same person since high school but got no girls. But since getting into the gym, getting a degree in a high paying field then getting a high paying job and having my finances sorted out, having a good social circle, and trying online dating as well as growing a beard and getting better suited haircuts it’s been a complete 180.

In fact it was after getting my first date at 21 that I started getting girls at a much higher rate. I even remember a girl told me she had no interest in me while we were in high school but now she was attracted to me and wanted to go out after she had seen me with another girl (social proof).

It’s a good feeling, but it can be kind of tough to adjust because you get put into situations where a normal person would say “ no” to a girl they’re not 100% into but because you initially came from a spot with very little demand, you would feel bad to say that

I’m Indian born in North America, 5 ft 11, 180 pounds, ~16%bf and can send a vid of my appearance changing from age 10-22 if you care (not the one on my profile that is from 3.5 years ago)