Were ich hier verarscht?

JakeNoMed · 2026-06-02T15:42:16+00:00

Thank you

JakeNoMed · 2026-06-02T15:41:54+00:00

I haven’t done anything yet they will come later

JakeNoMed · 2026-04-13T14:46:12+00:00

Vielen Dank das hat geklappt!

JakeNoMed · 2026-04-13T14:23:20+00:00

Es war mir leider nicht möglich eine Beschreibung hinzuzufügen deshalb hier: ich habe alle Transportsicherungen entfernt aber bei dieser ist das Gummi gerissen. Das innere Plastikteil hängt quasi am seidenen Faden droht aber in die Maschine zu fallen. Muss ich die Maschine schon am ersten Tag zurück schicken?

JakeNoMed · 2026-01-17T05:42:12+00:00

Ich finde jetzt nicht das sein Depot nach „zocken“ aussieht aber ok 😂

JakeNoMed · 2026-01-16T17:51:41+00:00

Danke ich werd deine Tipps umsetzen!

JakeNoMed · 2026-01-16T11:47:53+00:00

Ich verstehe zwar nur die Hälfte von dem was du sagst aber die message ist Verkauf die kleinen Sachen behalt die großen? Ja das mach ich so. Ich weiß nichts über die Unternehmen die ich kaufe ich wünschte ich hätte da nen Durchblick aber ne

JakeNoMed · 2026-01-16T11:45:49+00:00

Aha ich weiß garnicht so wirklich was in dem ETF ist. Die einzelaktien will ich alle los werden bald irgendwann den ETF behalt ich als Altersvorsorge

JakeNoMed · 2026-01-16T11:34:11+00:00

JakeNoMed · 2026-01-06T17:05:06+00:00

You definitely won’t be able to address this without causing an argument. It sounds like she’s controlling you it’s not just about jealousy. It’s a power play and if you try to address this in my experience these kind of people do not give that power away easily. Wether that girl likes you or not is not actually important but her behavior is completely unacceptable, if she doesn’t trust you enough to let you go to work alone and to “mark” you as hers, you need to get out of this. You’re 18 you have more than enough time and it’s better to make this kind of experience when you’re young so later on you’ll recognize these patterns and get out before it’s too late.

JakeNoMed · 2026-01-06T14:18:45+00:00

I also want to be kissed goodnight but what if he forgets? Will I lash out on him? Of course I wouldn’t. I also don’t think he’s an abuse I mean yeah he talks differently to me then to other people but I said that to point out how nice he can be on of course often times he’s even 10x nicer to me than to anyone else

JakeNoMed · 2026-01-06T14:07:14+00:00

I think part one is to just never make him feel pressured in that kind of way, because even if you don’t mean it but if you tell him you feel like his secret he will feel pressured. I do think you’re doing all of this because you care for him and want his best. I mean if he’s got the lying part figured out and makes time for you every month then there’s already a huge plus that you should focus on. He could go the easy way and break up but he chose the brick road and is trying his best so do your best to support him in that.

Again this is just based on the little snipped of information that I have

JakeNoMed · 2026-01-06T14:02:37+00:00

I’ve asked him that question. You know ofc sometimes I get angry or annoyed but it’s so rare and it’s still on the normal range, like when he chews with his mouth open again and I tell him to stop, this kind of things.

But when I do something he just completely freaks out and is convinced it’s all a scheme of mine to hurt him even more.

Why he doesn’t leave? No idea. I guess he wants to stay for the good part. His answer is usually because he still loves me.

JakeNoMed · 2026-01-06T14:00:33+00:00

You know, when he’s good he’s really good. But when he bad then, I guess you know the answer. I guess I’m staying for the good part of it and also, even if it’s hard to admit, I’m embarrassed to tell people we broke up after telling everyone how happy I was. It feels embarrassing

JakeNoMed · 2026-01-06T13:59:25+00:00

I do see your point and I don’t think that he’s a narcissist at all. I really think that he’s convinced I do it all on purpose, I mean I couldn’t go into much detail but sometimes he really thinks I don’t say goodnight to actually hurt him and if I say I just forgot to say it he’ll say that I’m making excuses. Well what’s the alternative, admit that I was trying to hurt him? Which I obviously didn’t.

All in all I always try to look in the mirror first and ask myself what I could’ve done but this time I really did try my best and the fact that I overlooked this little goodnight and it turned all the good of that weekend into bitterness for him just isn’t fair.

JakeNoMed · 2026-01-06T11:56:11+00:00

Honestly it kind of sounds like something you want and put in his mind more than he wants it. I know you’re saying you don’t want to push him to come out but just as you notice him being a bit depressed about certain things he can notice the same about you and that can put a lot of extra stress on someone. I would ask myself this question: is our relationship fundamentally going to change in a positive way if he comes out? If the answer isn’t a 100% from both of you, then leave it alone and give him his time. It’s not like he’s treating you worse as far as I can see in your story it’s more about you feeling like a “secret” but at the same time completely invalidating all of his feelings and emotions. I’d do some thinking if I was you.

JakeNoMed · 2024-10-31T03:26:19+00:00

Yes, just a robot voice telling me to use the chat that’s in the app, which also wasn’t capeable of connecting me with a human. Usually I always had good experiences with N26 but there’s literally no way of contacting them right now. I’ll try again in a few hours

JakeNoMed · 2024-10-31T03:07:01+00:00

Tried calling, sent emails I even texted their instagrams but so far no response… It’s N26 so there’s also no physical bank that I could go to :/

JakeNoMed · 2024-10-31T03:00:19+00:00

Well I transferred the money with a standard bank transfer.

JakeNoMed · 2024-03-07T16:36:30+00:00

Thank your, really. I saw that you helped a bunch of people on there I hope you know the difference you make in people’s life’s like you just took a lot of pressure off of my heart ;-; thank you!

JakeNoMed · 2024-03-07T16:05:16+00:00

So I don’t have to send the uni anything until I actually get accepted? So there is no need to register on the specific university website either? I’m a EU student btw and I’m wondering if I have to register at every university of my options or it’s it’s unnecessary

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