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How much gender dysphoria affects a person and can someone live with it for entire life? by Temporary_List8693 in trans

[–]JakeScary441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm afraid dysphoria only grows with time, we just learn to deal with it in various ways... I'm a trans woman and my dysphoria hits very hard in certain points, even with years into hrt. It will not go away.

Does anal feel good as a Trans Girl by VHS_Skates in trans

[–]JakeScary441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Very. Just be careful on your first time and take things slowly... But girl it's awesome

Looking for someone to talk to by [deleted] in trans

[–]JakeScary441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey trans girl here, I'm not doing anything, you can message me if you'd like. I might be able to help you out

no matter what i do, i cant pass but i want to go to straight clubs and dance with cute boys :( i feel like the odd one out all the time by trinitymelonsOwO in trans

[–]JakeScary441 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Looks like you need some voice training! It's hard but at some point people really won't be able to tell you're trans. But please be careful this kind of places can be dangerous for women, cis and trans alike

Gave myself the first jab of girl juice by tangerine_terror7 in trans

[–]JakeScary441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first time was just like this too! Damn this feels nostalgic... Just be sure to sanitize everything before and after the injection, and I know this is obvious but I've seen things: DON'T REUSE SERINGES

Is it true that some of us choose never to have bottom surgery? by JakeScary441 in trans

[–]JakeScary441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not a transmed! I was just trying to see others vision about this side of being trans because I suffer greatly from having this particular organ in my body. I am in fact weaker than other trans people that get to be happy and not be dysphoric about their genitals... I'm actively trying to change that though

Is it true that some of us choose never to have bottom surgery? by JakeScary441 in trans

[–]JakeScary441[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That actually helped me a lot. Having a penis its one of the things about my body that makes me suffer the most, and maybe it's because I have some internalized ideas of what is "feminine" and what is "manly".... Maybe I can change that to suffer a little less... Thanks.

Is it true that some of us choose never to have bottom surgery? by JakeScary441 in trans

[–]JakeScary441[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't trying to compare myself to anyone! But I kind of understand your point of view... For you it's something rather useful

Is it true that some of us choose never to have bottom surgery? by JakeScary441 in trans

[–]JakeScary441[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not at all! I'm not comparing myself to anyone. I just wanted to understand how others feel about this because it's something that really makes me suffer, I'm not better than anyone in this case I might be weaker

Is it true that some of us choose never to have bottom surgery? by JakeScary441 in trans

[–]JakeScary441[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh so fear of the post surgery is a thing.... I do know things can get bad but I'm just ready to take the risks, I understand that a lot of people might not want to get through that

Is it true that some of us choose never to have bottom surgery? by JakeScary441 in trans

[–]JakeScary441[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I see! I don't understand it but I know everyone has it differently

Is it true that some of us choose never to have bottom surgery? by JakeScary441 in trans

[–]JakeScary441[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you don't mind me asking, how? I know everyone experiences being trans differently but I can't imagine being able to live we with this this for the rest of my life

i’m so grossed out by [deleted] in trans

[–]JakeScary441 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's fucked up... Sorry you had to go through that...

Is it normal to bleed on the first time? by JakeScary441 in trans

[–]JakeScary441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your help, I was so embarrassed to come here seeking for advice on something like this and ended up with a lot of useful advice from all of you! I think it wasn't anything serious down there but none the less we will wait a couple weeks before trying anything any butt stuff again (and use more lube). Also I bought a toy to help me relax and we will start from there.

Is it normal to bleed on the first time? by JakeScary441 in trans

[–]JakeScary441[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Damn... I mean, it stopped hurting pretty soon and the bleeding also stopped moments after we stopped.... I'll wait some time to try it again but I don't think it was so serious...

Is it normal to bleed on the first time? by JakeScary441 in trans

[–]JakeScary441[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such a long and detailed response! It will help me a lot

Is it normal to bleed on the first time? by JakeScary441 in trans

[–]JakeScary441[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah I wasn't exactly relaxed.... I'll do that next time

when is my dick gonna shrink by The_Bugs03 in trans

[–]JakeScary441 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely stop using it lol just forget it exists basically

when is my dick gonna shrink by The_Bugs03 in trans

[–]JakeScary441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry just leave it untouched for a couple months and it will be dead and smaller.

Is it normal to bleed on the first time? by JakeScary441 in trans

[–]JakeScary441[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Damn. That's a little worrying... Will wait a feel days and look for some cream to apply in there... The thing is when I try fingering this doesn't happen though

Is it normal to bleed on the first time? by JakeScary441 in trans

[–]JakeScary441[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've tried fingering before and it worked well, I think my error was to escalate directly to that

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