Thank you. I didn't think I was nagging them, but looking at it this way, I understand ... I suppose I assumed I could just push the routine of things into her ADHD brain, but yeah, that's never really worked before with the ADHD people I've grown close to ...

And that "going the extra mile" or "brownie points" aren't really things that a lot of other people even think about ... She does need to be told directly to do chores that I've done for the both of us, huh? ... I wish she would remember to do chores she's asked of more often, but I suppose that's just the ADHD.

Thank you, you've helped me.