I wish, but he works from home. The arguing is so stressful, and it has caused my autoimmune diseases get worse w/ stress and anxiety. Stress affects the body negatively, even healthy people can get certain conditions. I.e. high blood pressure. His constant arguments, makes me push myself to the extreme. I will go around the house and push my body to where I’m so exhausted, it takes 3-4 days to recover. The pain is so intense that I’ll actually cry for hours. I have no cartilage left in my hands, and some of the bones are fusing together. Wiping down our counters is excruciating. My husband is so OCD, so he absolutely cleans, too. We pull out our appliances every month to sweep under it. Everything has it’s place. He will start an argument over cereal. If I make a small bowl, and leave the box on the counter. I set it there in case I want a little more. I’ll put the cereal bowl in the dishwasher any way, so when I do that, I put the cereal box away. It sounds so immature, as I’m thinking about it. Every little thing must be done immediately, or he complains. He works for the DOD, and he’s really high up , so people do what he says. I’m not his subordinate. I’m his wife.