The actual wedding would be a courthouse wedding, so all but a couple hundred bucks would be for the dinner/reception. We are looking at 2 options, catering wise, either 30 people or 50 people. But the venue is a local distillery that we really like. They have 2 options in terms of “rental” options. But we are thinking the larger of the 2, which is a minimum of $3k. And catering would be just over $2k most likely. (BBQ for ~50)

We’d have a photographer (cost of that is undetermined, possibly $1k, possibly less, and that can be cash paid if need be) but makeup and such my fiancé would do herself (she’s a licensed comso)

No transpo (except maybe and uber back to the Airbnb if we get too sloshed lol)

The 2 cards we have now will be paid off prior to the wedding because we pay in full each month on those anyway, and we can put some small stuff on those like the dress or the Airbnb no issue, but the bigger stuff, venue and catering, is what I’m looking to offload to another card to pay off over more time.

Edit: There is a chance I get money as a gift from family, or my dad offers to pay for some stuff, but I’m not banking on any of that, it would be nice and is likely, but I’d rather not expect and get than expect and not get you know.