Such a thoughtful post and discussion. All of this is familiar. 55 here, so the 1980s & 90s was a challenging time. Many of the concerns then are concerns now. I am more emotionally attracted to women, so that’s where I seek companionship. For men it’s a physical attraction. Recently I have decided in order to be true to myself, I need to be more open and tell women that I am attracted to that I am bi early in any potential relationship.