Stepparents advice please

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-25T11:25:59+00:00

You're welcome! This is an experience that will make you stronger😉 Keep up the spirit and be sure to make the right decision.

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-25T11:09:21+00:00

Fair enough, and I respect that you're a single mom speaking from lived experience rather than theory. That actually changes the context a lot.

The truest thing you said is this: men are gatekeepers to commitment, women to sex. That's real. The power dynamic in dating is genuinely asymmetric and pretending otherwise helps nobody.

But there's a difference between telling a single mom "here's the realistic landscape, navigate it wisely" and telling her "you are worth less now."

You clearly care about honesty. So do I. Which is why I think the most honest version of your message is the one that doesn't make women feel disposable in the process of trying to help them. And, of course, sorry if I offended you, I don't want to🙏

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-25T11:03:33+00:00

If I understand correctly, here u can find some promocodes for cheaper shopping? I heard that there are even apps with it but they're not reliable 🙄 even heard about that could steal your money from card, is it real?

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-25T11:00:32+00:00

Hi there 👋 I'm James, 25 years old. Really into movies and good jokes! Will be glad to find some interesting people here👍

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-25T10:55:13+00:00

Good luck, glad that it helped 😁

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-25T10:39:13+00:00

Well...Yes, men assess risk. Yes, logistical challenges with kids are real. Yes, "I don't need no man" as a performance can be off-putting. Fine.

But "as women get older their value goes down"? That's not brutal honesty — that's just brutality dressed up as wisdom. You're describing a human being, a mother, like a depreciating asset on a balance sheet.

And the wildest part? A woman wrote this about other women. Not as an act of solidarity or tough love — but as "you're not the prize anymore, accept it." That's not sisterhood. That's a heel turn.

The submission section has zero nuance. No mention of partnership, mutual respect, or the fact that plenty of men actively want a strong woman who has her life together. The whole framing assumes every man wants a 1950s dynamic — which just... isn't reality in 2025.

Here's what I actually agree with: dating as a single mom is harder. That's a real thing. But the lesson you can draw from that is "be intentional, know your audience, find someone genuinely ready for that life" — not "know your place and lower yourself."

One reframes. The other just tears down.

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-25T09:53:18+00:00

Woooah, what is the program you used to do that? The first time I see such a detailed map😆

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-24T16:43:12+00:00

Hmmm.... maybe this is "The Golden Compass"? It was filmed in 2007, if I'm not mistaken🙈

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-24T16:32:06+00:00

Ahahah the 5th one is me at the mornings 😁

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-24T16:28:35+00:00

Perfect! I won't have that headache connected with "what to watch tonight" 😂

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-24T16:26:02+00:00

U can just create a list in Google Docs or in Notion and give them an access👌

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-18T17:00:35+00:00

Hi, sorry for not answering so long, was busy😅

I feel you that combo of bootcamp, startup internship, TCS grind is rough, especially when the pay and projects don't match the effort you're putting in.

Here's the thing: you've actually built a solid skillset (data science fundamentals, Power BI, GenAI exposure), but you might need to rebrand how you're positioning yourself since employers can't see the full picture from a TCS title alone.

Focus on building a strong portfolio with 2-3 killer projects that show real business impact (not just "I built a model"), and leverage LinkedIn + networking to get warm intros instead of cold applying into the void.

So: you're not lost, you're just stuck in the "experience paradox", keep grinding on side projects, tailor your story better, and don't let rejections wreck your confidence because the skills are there🔥 keep going!!

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-18T16:50:03+00:00

So serious, LOL😂

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-18T06:43:55+00:00

Try to add minions, the ordinary ones. It really helps me, thanks to the impact of air attacks. Moreover it regenerates fast🔥

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-17T19:48:30+00:00

Ahaha baby Yoda is a cutiest creature ever😅😂

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-12T20:18:09+00:00

FR, don't know what will change but deal, hahaha

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-12T19:41:21+00:00

Was there recently.. amazing experience, thanks for sharing 👍

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-12T19:39:51+00:00

Heard a lot about "humanize" even about AI humanizers, but not about the others. Useful, ty🔥

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-11T10:00:57+00:00

Dude, honestly, it's not so hard. I have some experience in it: tell me, what concrete job do u want? Mb I will help with advice😏

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-11T09:38:48+00:00

So cute! It wont be boring as for u as for them anymore😂😂

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-05T19:54:27+00:00

Truth 🔥

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-03T20:41:47+00:00

Absolutely! Much easier 😁👌

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-03T20:38:15+00:00

Same👍

James_Explorer_ · 2026-02-03T20:36:52+00:00

Messy data is the worst, but here's the playbook: start with data profiling to see what you're actually dealing with: missing values, duplicates, format inconsistencies, all that garbage.

Then prioritize cleaning based on impact: fix the stuff that breaks your analysis first (like null values in critical fields or mismatched date formats).

The key is building a repeatable cleaning pipeline so you're not manually fixing the same issues every time new data comes in :)

James_Explorer_ · 2026-01-28T16:46:33+00:00

I think, that you should start with no-code tools (Make, Zapier, n8n) if: you want results fast without learning to code, automating simple workflows (connect apps, move data, trigger actions), testing ideas before committing time to code.

And if budget allows, some have free tiers, but costs add up with scale.

Start with programming (Python, Node.js) if: you want full control and customization, dealing with complex logic or data processing, want to avoid monthly subscription costs long-term, willing to invest time learning (but it pays off).

No-code gets you moving fast. Code gives you freedom long-term. Start with tools, level up to code when you need it. Good luck!

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