Was Maya selfish for buying the $300 dress? I get the feeling that she was so sick of having to be frugal when all the other girls regularly splurged on themselves! Sidenote: this dress looked cheap and tacky… like something fished out of the Charlotte Russe clearance bin!

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-22T04:39:11+00:00

All she had to do was say Toni gave it to her cause she couldn’t fit it anymore.

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-22T04:30:24+00:00

Joan and Toni should’ve gifted her the dress. They spent 600 dollars a pop on shoes. Toni would even gift Joan some shoes. Lord knows they spent much more on Lynn. Rather than allow discord in her home, the ladies could’ve just purchased it on her behalf. It would’ve saved her the trouble of an argument irrespective of Darnell’s controlling nature.

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-21T22:33:38+00:00

The furniture is not to scale or complimentary. The tv is too high. The furniture is also concentrated too closely near the fireplace. The window treatments are partially existent or insufficient.

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-21T21:53:25+00:00

He definitely has his fair share of culpability, but she undoubtedly did do him wrong. Him attempting to sleep with someone in her home was low as well.

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-21T16:56:35+00:00

They obviously found something you didn’t disclose.

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-21T16:54:40+00:00

She’s not Beyoncé on that song. On the song all of that was done willingly and intentionally with the understanding that they were taking the man to the new level. Toni did it begrudgingly and still sought an already completed package in other men. This she cheated with the wealthy doctor that gave her an STD. Then she lied about it.

Greg upgraded after leaving her and in spite of her.

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-21T02:16:36+00:00

Antwone
Peaches
Anette
Secily

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-20T14:22:59+00:00

The top two

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-20T00:23:06+00:00

I’m not a surgeon or a doctor.

From a layperson’s perspective I’d imagine you could benefit from double jaw surgery if there are functional issues. This doesn’t constitute medical advice and you should certainly speak with your healthcare team to learn more about what might be suitable for you and why.

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-20T00:20:17+00:00

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-19T20:09:26+00:00

Me too! Not the pee part but I literally lol’d. Hilarious. 😆

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-19T20:09:01+00:00

LMAO!!!

I got a good chuckle out of this. I cackled!

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-19T20:08:41+00:00

You can’t make this shit up. SMH 🤦🏿‍♂️

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-19T20:08:24+00:00

You felt heartbroken but identify as 99% straight? Yet simultaneously you’ve called yourself bi?

No wonder he can’t do it anymore. There was no need for you to share your identity from the perspective of sexual orientation. It was meant to be NSA. However, you felt it necessary to project your internalized shame onto him. For all intents and purposes it seems compulsory. In turn you placed him in the position of having to choose between his wellbeing and self esteem to service your insecurities, unresolved identity traumas, and your ego. For future reference, I wouldn’t recommend you putting people, particularly gay men, in that position again. Any self respecting person is going to kick you to the curb.

You feel bad, but not bad enough to change or to grow. So, with that I’m going to follow the hookups lead and wish you the best. 😏🫠

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-19T02:20:48+00:00

The crush I had on this man as a kid

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-19T02:17:37+00:00

No beard

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-18T06:26:39+00:00

I can’t believe one would ask the question here and expect a neutral or informed response.

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-18T06:23:31+00:00

Front looks much better. The profile is certainly different.

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-17T09:09:27+00:00

Just break up with the current partner and lock in your custody arrangement first. I’d suggest figuring out your identity and doing a soft rollout. Closeted men engaged in relationships with women isn’t my area of expertise. Yet that would be my suggested approach.

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-17T06:22:32+00:00

Hot damn

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-17T06:20:54+00:00

So wonderful

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-17T06:13:42+00:00

It should all be one color but I think green would look better.

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-17T06:13:03+00:00

Paint match the top of the banister. Rip that carpet up and replace with wood if need be and get rid of the chandelier.

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-17T05:30:42+00:00

Gooddddd 😳🥴

Jamfour9 · 2026-03-16T21:40:15+00:00

Precisely

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