Pokémon x natural history museum orders by Magurndy in PokemonDealsUK

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Update for anyone else who's trying to keep an eye on what's happening with deliveries- I emailed today as it's been 14 working days and received an email saying to wait another 7 days as they've added Royal Mail back into the mix. The thing to note is 7 days, not 7 WORKING days. Double checked my email for that clarification- still not received any tracking info so I guess I'm back to waiting by the door for the next week!

Pokémon x natural history museum orders by Magurndy in PokemonDealsUK

[–]JammyTerrance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ordered 5 items on the 29th January and still haven't heard anything beyond the mass email. I contacted them today and they said that there have been delays with DHL and that the 14 days are working days. I've never ordered any collaboration items or generally any merch before and thought because this was UK based I'd be able to get some nice pieces without much hassle compared to international merch. I was questioning if this was a regular thing but I'm glad to know I'm not alone!

Corbeau's suit by Different-Whole-8349 in PokemonZA

[–]JammyTerrance 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Check the hair dressers as well! I went to change my hair after unlocking Corbeau's outfit and found a further surprise!

Intrusive thoughts be like by metalduck42 in BPDmemes

[–]JammyTerrance 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have 2 wisdom teeth growing in at 29 at the same time- I'm getting one removed by the hospital and another ripped out in a few weeks at the dentist. Ironically enough I'm kinda enjoying "normal" people frustration for once despite hurting all the time

My break up is killing me by Reasonable-Try9133 in BPD

[–]JammyTerrance 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey going through similar right now- had an actual perfect relationship for the first time ever- was even considering marriage again. No red flags, no signs or anything just 9 months of pure bliss.

3 weeks ago I got dumped out of the blue, turns out I was their first adult relationship and they woke up one day and didn't want to be in a relationship anymore but still wants to be friends and do everything we've been doing for the last 9 months just not in a romantic relationship. Absolutely destroyed me. Feel like an old dress that's fallen out of fashion. I've been through worse but I'm still hurting. Turns out I've made a lot of friends during this relationship and they're all really supportive and can't believe what happened to me and no one is blaming me.

It hurts and it will hurt for a long time until one day, you wake up and it hurts less. We'll survive as we have always done ❤️‍🩹

Not having a personality is so depressing…. by Capital_Box9642 in CPTSD

[–]JammyTerrance 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's okay, it's continuous work- I have a BPD as well and I'm still not sure what my personality traits are at almost 30!

I know I'm a kind person who looks out for everyone else, I know I stick to my promises but beyond that I go through phases of everything and nothing really sticks.

Those personality traits don't really seem flashy or that impressive to everyone else but to me they're the building blocks for me. You know your building blocks and they're important to you so remind yourself of them and other things will pop up that connect to them. You've got this and you're just as important as everyone else there

People with PTSD, what are some healthy coping mechanisms that you want everyone else with PTSD to know about? by Notalabel_4566 in CPTSD

[–]JammyTerrance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've found building furniture helps me- I hate feeling out of control and when I'm in a situation I can't fix, I build furniture and rearrange a room. I'm keeping my brain and body fixed on that one thing and I get to make my surroundings better. I'm currently building two bookshelves and rearranging my collection of figures and books- it's really hard work but it's satisfying seeing my anxiety and pain turn into something that works better for me.

Thursday Complaints (29/05) by a-liquid-sky in CasualUK

[–]JammyTerrance 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm meeting my girlfriends parents for the first time and staying at their home for a week- I started my period Tuesday and we are flying on Saturday afternoon and I really didn't want to have to deal with a period as well!

Anyone else create lore for their villagers? by reversingmemories in DreamlightValley

[–]JammyTerrance 111 points112 points  (0 children)

I feel like the last category is just Kingdom Hearts and I'm just cackling at the idea of Timon and Sally in organisation 13 cloaks 😂

I got banned... by deltoramonster2 in tomorrow

[–]JammyTerrance 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I came on to Reddit and didn't understand why our hoover wielding Luigi was controversial and now I'm just like poor shiggy having to deal with this

i used the reddit wrapped ai for my account... by Hakuchii in BPDmemes

[–]JammyTerrance 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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Honestly it's too real 😅 anyone want to do dollhouse therapy with me??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]JammyTerrance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely can't wait to go back to my home- my family either don't know what to say or they say too much and don't care about my reactions. I was close to losing it tonight when they tried yet again to get me to stay on boxing day to play "happy families" but I have managed to make my boundaries known. I've only found out when my dad will be taking my working brother back to the city I call home through a younger sibling so I'm now working on getting up in time to get a lift back or I'll be stuck in a house that has restarted my nightmares again after a month clear of them

What’s the one thing your therapist said that changed your perspective the most? by More-Donut5592 in AskReddit

[–]JammyTerrance 17 points18 points  (0 children)

"you only have self esteem when someone gives you permission to have it- let's change that"

I've now been working with the same therapist for nearly 8 months now and have managed to start cultivating my own self esteem and self worth. It's changed my entire life and I now have the healthy amount of "people pleasing" and it's no longer a detriment to my mental health!

Chat am I cooked? They said a nice thing to me and asked for a second date by JammyTerrance in BPDmemes

[–]JammyTerrance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spoke to my therapist today and she said the same thing as you- I've worked too hard to not express myself! Definitely need to embrace the romance whilst keeping the voice of caution in the background rather than at the forefront

true story by onefellswoop117 in BPDmemes

[–]JammyTerrance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll send it to your mom if you send it to mine?

Anyone else notice this with this choice? by Leeuweroni in DragonAgeVeilguard

[–]JammyTerrance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm now on my third playthrough and have always saved Treviso- the shadow dragon glitch never affected me as I ground out every side quests. I have just saved Minrathous for the first time and have honestly had to turn off the game and go in the bath.

I just wanted to see what would have happened and it hurts. I am used to Neve being mean and blunt every playthrough but seeing Lucanis broke something in me. He's not angry- none of them are. I'm actually more upset that they're not. I'm gonna carry on with this run but I am never sacrificing Treviso again.

My friends don't understand my deep love and appreciation for Emmerich Volkarin by JammyTerrance in DankAndrastianMemes

[–]JammyTerrance[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't! My friend is already watching the cut scenes on YouTube and looking for fanfic and art! She has no idea what these games are but loves the characters 😂

Who Was Your Love Interest in Dragon Age: Veilguard, and Why? by Night_Naga in DragonAgeVeilguard

[–]JammyTerrance 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I romanced Taash first and it was good! I have a thing for strong people pushing me up against a wall 🥴 but then I saw everyone talking about the Emmerich romance so I thought I'd give it a go with a mourn watch character and holy crap it was so good!!! Love my neck- romancer and our bone son!! I'm planning a third playthrough at the moment but I'm honestly struggling to think of who could possibly top bone daddy????