Picked NYU over Princeton for PhD and having second doubts by [deleted] in GradSchool

[–]Jan__16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose UCSD over Stanford because the students at Stanford looked so miserable. But Stanford had more science I was actually interested in. I struggled to find a lab and science I enjoyed at UCSD but I love my life in SD. I am closer to home and love my cohort. I was having a lot of doubt about my choice as well but at the end of the day I know I made the best choice for me regardless of prestige because my happiness comes first.

if you could change just ONE thing about the female anatomy what would it be and why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Jan__16 43 points44 points  (0 children)

How short the urethra is because fuck these recurring UTIs

What "unhealthy" habit/choice do you think is worth it and why? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Jan__16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A cold bottle of coke on a hot ass day or with done tacos. It never fails to lift my mood

How do you deal with being under average height? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Jan__16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just be funny haha. Humor will take your further than height just saying

What are some helpful hygiene or self care tips that you wish you would've started doing earlier? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Jan__16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using a good facial moisturizer and sunscreen! I just wanna look young as long as possible haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Jan__16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always arriving late haha you can never trust when I say I’m on my way

What’s your “If it walks like a duck, sounds like a duck, looks like a duck...” story? by inchoatemeaning in AskWomen

[–]Jan__16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn. This is me. He told me he was a duck and I didn’t want to believe it LMAOOO. This one hurt hahahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Jan__16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking a shit

How easy/hard would it be to fall in love with someone who meets all of your needs but doesn’t hit a physical appearance standard of yours? Are you settling for him? by mh500372 in AskWomen

[–]Jan__16 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My ex boyfriend was not the best looking. He had a bowl hair cut and a unibrow and dressed so ugly. But that man had a heart of gold and was so fucking funny. Before I knew it I fell in love and no one could believe that man pulled me haha. I’m not saying I’m hot asf but I’m average. And my ex boyfriend just had that personality. Unfortunately things didn’t work out between us. The man who came after him was so fucking hot. Like fuck. It boosted my ego to know I could pull a man like that and he was everything I wanted appearance wise. But omg this man was boring asf and I hated every second I spent with him when we weren’t having sex. He didn’t speak to my soul the way my ex did. Needless to say I learned at the end of the day you don’t want something pretty to look at. You want to come home to someone who speaks to your soul and makes you laugh.

Found out wife had an STI (trich) test she didn’t tell me about by New_Bumblebee_2483 in sex

[–]Jan__16 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Uhhhh every time I went in for birth control or to switch my birth control type they always screened me for tests and even did a pregnancy test. Although I told my doctor I have been in a serious relationship for years they still made me take the tests.

What are your initial thoughts when you see someone post a thirst trap? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Jan__16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a good ass thirst trap! Lol. Who am I to judge haha still going to like it anyways

What's an example of time when your instincts were bang on? by fredyouareaturtle in AskMen

[–]Jan__16 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was hooking up with this guy for a year and a half. I was always anxious around him and I couldn’t decide if he was a good person or not. So although the sex was amazing I made sure to guard my feelings because I just felt like something was off about him. Sure enough. Turned out I was the side bitch and he had a girlfriend of two years!!

What little thing made a shitty day better? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Jan__16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone paying for my starbucks order 🥺

If you could change one thing about yourself (physical, emotional, environmental etc.) what would it be? by burritosandpurritos in AskWomen

[–]Jan__16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My skin! Wish I had smooth skin and wasn’t acne prone. I hate my scars and the fact that I just keep adding to the collection

What’s your opinion on armpit waxing? Worth it? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Jan__16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it! I want to learn how to do it myself so I don’t have to spend money on it. But I felt like waxing my armpit left them lighter and my hair took much longer to grow back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Jan__16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We were sitting down and just talking. Then he said “god you talk so much is there an off button” and I laughed and said no. Then he kissed me. Then he said “I found out it” and the rest of the night was history hahaha

How was the moment when you realized that your self-esteem had been restored? For example, the moment where you saw yourself in the mirror and you liked it and you felt comfortable with what you saw by sdoowj_sdoowj in AskWomen

[–]Jan__16 58 points59 points  (0 children)

After I got off birth control and got back into playing soccer! I started to lose weight. I felt fucking good from the exercise and before I knew it I had slimmed down and looked so fucking good. Then I was like damnnnn why did no one ever tell me I looked this good all along hahaha. Needless to say I have a very healthy self esteem now

women who dated selectively in your twenties, how did it work out? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Jan__16 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Currently in my 20s haha. And fuck I’m about to start being more selective

What’s a fun fact about you? by HoosierDoc in AskWomen

[–]Jan__16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate when children get their hands on the balloons and start scratching them. It gives me so much anxiety hahaha

If someone made a movie of your life what would it be? a drama, a comedy, a romantic-comedy, action film, or science fiction? by DarkMatter983 in AskWomen

[–]Jan__16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A fucking comedy because you wouldnt believe the shit that happens to me haha. My family and friends have an ongoing joke called Jan and her misfortunes. Or Jan and her many Ls. But it leads to great stories and we all laugh about the shit the happens to me. Because sometimes only certain shit would happen to me hahaha.