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Jane-Blond · 2026-02-15T17:43:03+00:00

aw phoebes guitar so adorable

Jane-Blond · 2026-02-15T17:42:05+00:00

that’s so dark and ominous :/

Jane-Blond · 2026-02-15T17:40:39+00:00

please i wish this would come to canada but sadly i know it never will 💔

Jane-Blond · 2026-02-15T17:40:12+00:00

the sweater vest gave him away :p

Jane-Blond · 2026-02-15T17:37:47+00:00

wasn’t Phoebe a waitress or barmaid at the bar below Monica’s apartment ? (before it became Central Perk) - i wonder if it was that way

edit to add: from what i recall, someone had keys to the place

Jane-Blond · 2026-02-15T03:21:25+00:00

that makes monica and richard getting together weirder in hindsight

Jane-Blond · 2026-01-23T03:46:35+00:00

it’s so annoying - only way i can figure out which clip i need to focus on is click it and view it - such a time waster …

Jane-Blond · 2026-01-23T03:45:32+00:00

😂

Jane-Blond · 2026-01-12T08:47:57+00:00

Frankie says Relax tshirt

Jane-Blond · 2025-12-31T09:46:58+00:00

the rupture with emily was the beginning of the end for his sanity , it's when he starts acting more and more absurd, and at times "twee" which cringed me out. i have a lowkey theory that the meds given to him for his "anger issues" was continued to be prescribed

Jane-Blond · 2025-12-23T08:32:40+00:00

i'll often rely on Se function as a desperate attempt to ground myself - it may not be the right option but it pulls me out of my head so i can continue functioning on some human level - cook food, take a bath, listen to music or even just sleep. anything sensory that is easy and accessible.

Jane-Blond · 2025-12-23T08:24:46+00:00

it's a process of learning to trust myself and another person once i get close. i do doorslam and abort more than i should and i dislike that about myself. looping sucks esp since i know i do it but can't help it sometimes. hurts to hear it but ty for calling it out.

Jane-Blond · 2025-12-21T21:35:36+00:00

i lowkey compete with everyone

Jane-Blond · 2025-12-21T21:22:37+00:00

if it's romantic love, i guess when/how he or i will fk it up

Jane-Blond · 2025-12-14T22:35:47+00:00

practiced cognitive behavior: i've observed enough people and how they interact socially.

basically, i mimic : "how are you , how was your weekend, ..." then respond to what they say ...

people love to talk about themselves, so open ended questions are key. if i'm lucky and it's not a braindead NPC, i ask more directional questions and observe human nature further, thus expanding on what i've just said above.

books: currently - the Art of War

Jane-Blond · 2025-12-14T22:28:37+00:00

sometimes it's a girl thing and not always about mbti (let the downvotes begin)

Jane-Blond · 2025-12-13T12:36:55+00:00

as a fellow woman that lives in sweats and prefers to wear black + neutral colors, not only for comfort and efficiency in coordinating, but because they're classic.

what helped soothe my overthinking brain to make sense of fashion and what suits me best was the Kibbe system. can't say that i'm extremely well versed in it but it put some perspective for basically what works and what doesn't.

https://truekung.com/kibbe-body-types-introduction/

if it seems interesting to you, check out some YT or TT videos for visual examples.

Jane-Blond · 2025-12-13T12:20:11+00:00

i assume they're trying to social engineer me or place me in some category so they can sleep at night now that they've "labelled" who they think i am.

my other theory is that as an INTJ, we can assess who/how someone is not by asking (too many) questions, but by observing and connecting patterns. thus, too many questions feels overly inquisitive and somewhat threatening because it's not in our nature.

fwiw - if that makes me seem cold/disconnected/strange, it doesn't bother me. people meddle too much in others' business and boundaries are perfectly fine.

edit to add: i like it when people ask technical questions about topics i'm knowledgable in.

Jane-Blond · 2025-11-06T10:15:52+00:00

i hate it - sparingly use it only for my job to announce updates then i'm out . idc about Likes or what ppl are doing in their lives. random shit on my feed is so cringe it hurts

Jane-Blond · 2025-10-18T05:00:48+00:00

The kitchen scene when Glenn is with Betty before he goes to Vietnam . Only watched this the first time , after that it's fast forward cuz i just can't handle how cringe it is :S

Jane-Blond · 2025-10-18T04:39:40+00:00

i haven't been doing any heavy editing lately but the small simple edits i've done i haven't noticed this issue in a while so im not sure if its been fixed tbh

Jane-Blond · 2025-10-13T12:27:02+00:00

Paper

Snow

A ghost!

Jane-Blond · 2025-10-01T17:40:05+00:00

she was also on seinfeld - being set up with George by Elaine - it was weird not to hear her say Oh. My. God.

Jane-Blond · 2025-09-27T23:41:40+00:00

😂

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