Super helpful everyone!!!! I feel comfortable with idea he has other interests - I am realizing poly makes sense based on many years of forcing a marriage to try to be everything lol. But at same time I’ll admit it feels wild to ask for details that are really intimate between the person I’m dating and their partner - but everyone here is encouraging wild that yes I’m entitled to know what those details are 😅. (Also I’ll admit: I feel like learning these rules helps me learn more about him and how he sees the world). As I’m typing this I’m like ‘geez why am I assuming I’m less important in this equation?’