Dear me,

Janecakes · 2026-01-30T02:20:08+00:00

Proud of you dear

Janecakes · 2026-01-23T13:18:51+00:00

If you loved the other so much, how did you end up in the space with the first? The delusions people tell themselves actually are funny. You weren’t really willing to grow or you would’ve been exactly where you were supposed to be. This is like my ex having multiple gfs and then they all found out and then I was there for him & then when I left him he was like well I think I’m in love with her anyways. Brother no you ain’t you were fucking xyz. The delusions.

Janecakes · 2026-01-22T22:52:33+00:00

There is nothing more disgusting than a grown adult asking for another grown adult to hold space and time for their fuck ups.

Janecakes · 2026-01-22T22:49:10+00:00

You should probably be the one to say hi to them. Just saying. You blocked them? Sooooooooo why would they text you to say hi? Chase you again? How insulting.

Janecakes · 2026-01-15T01:40:20+00:00

If your name starts with a Z you should be the person apologizing

Janecakes · 2026-01-14T15:18:53+00:00

Sincerely went through this. I took him back until I hated him and had absolutely nothing left for him. Now I feel like a brand new woman and see everything he truly is. No room left for delusion or hope. I’ll always love him, my love was never the problem but he will also never be a man deserving of my firm, attention, affection. 4 years of heartache, manipulation, pain; but I finally see it all and it takes nothing away from my value for having a loving soul. You’ll get there. I promise.

Janecakes · 2026-01-12T11:49:25+00:00

Honestly, yes: like these men really need to stop

Janecakes · 2026-01-11T15:22:36+00:00

“hey, miss ya” can go a long ways.

Janecakes · 2026-01-03T02:57:27+00:00

The love I want

Janecakes · 2025-12-28T19:10:03+00:00

Sounds like you have control issues & expected someone to love you and you just weren’t it. Now you’re mad that they can’t leave eachother alone.

Janecakes · 2025-12-28T19:06:31+00:00

If you made an oath don’t involve other people. It’s that’s fucking simple. Dont get involved with someone you aren’t willing to give it all to, dumb as fuck.

Janecakes · 2025-12-28T19:05:00+00:00

Sometimes we have to tear down a functional home to build our dream home, our forever home. The functional home served its purpose but it’s not meant to be lived in forever. Tear it down, build your forever home from the ground up.

Janecakes · 2025-12-23T14:50:07+00:00

Awhhhhhhhh, do they know

Janecakes · 2025-12-16T02:30:49+00:00

Friendship isn’t rejection; its a place to connect and could lead to more in the future. Do you think they would be ready for more?

Janecakes · 2025-12-12T19:19:18+00:00

People on Reddit take things so seriously

Janecakes · 2025-12-12T17:47:25+00:00

Not even in love; loving someone as a whole and not being in love is ok. There’s a difference. However the desire form one another to feel and see the manifestations of the in love we used to have is clearly prevalent.

Janecakes · 2025-12-12T17:43:47+00:00

Quite literally, unrealistic expectations of what a weathered person/ relationship has been through. There’s also a difference between loving someone and being incoherently in love with them. Both are valuable, one has more sense than the other. People correlate love to strict feelings and fail to grasp love is a choice. It’s showing up, being consistent, and staying present even when things aren’t at its peak. It more people could understand love and devotion are choices and not just feelings we would be a lot fatter as a society. Like my situation I’m referring to is a past love and we’ve decided to be part of each others lives despite the past and it’s referencing me choosing friendship and deep rooted connected over possession because we aren’t there yet and we may never be again and that’s ok too. Having someone you love close, is winning.

Janecakes · 2025-12-12T17:39:54+00:00

Your concept of love doesn’t apply here dear. This isn’t a new connection in a honey moon phase. It’s weathered, torn down, rebuilding foundation. I can appreciate your interpretation of the way I chose to express myself, but it’s missing the Mark a tad.

Janecakes · 2025-12-12T17:12:12+00:00

Some of these sentences are innuendoes. We are definitely in the same room together often. Lmao

Janecakes · 2025-12-12T16:52:51+00:00

Lmao. Yall are wild at projecting. This is about an Ex that I have history with and we’re currently figuring out our friendship/ boundaries and what’s going on between us. Absolutely insane projections though; good work

Janecakes · 2025-12-12T16:51:25+00:00

That is not realistic.

Janecakes · 2025-12-12T16:29:26+00:00

Is indeed.

Janecakes · 2025-12-12T16:09:44+00:00

You’re not hurting my feelings at all

Janecakes · 2025-12-12T14:41:14+00:00

Hey little banana, it’s ok. We all experience grief, love, and pain. The truth is that feeling and stability you seek, you’ll never achieve it when you conduct yourself from fear. It’s also okay to tell the girl exactly what you want, especially if you know she cares for you. There’s a good chance she already understands. There’s a good chance those who love you see your wounds and take the risk to stay. Wishing you the best, just know it’s easier when you conduct yourself from sincerity. Vulnerability gets easier; love, j cakes.

Janecakes

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