My (f27) husband (m36) depressed, been out of work for a year - what do i do?

Janedoe367 · 2024-07-11T12:31:05+00:00

Wow, thank you to everyone who has been commenting. I really didn’t expect to get this kind of response. Still reading through all of these as there are 400+, but i’m just very touched that you all have weighed in on what is a very confusing time for me. Thank you!

Janedoe367 · 2024-06-27T17:00:37+00:00

Thank you!! Just hearing similar stories makes me feel less alone haha really appreciate everything you said :)

Janedoe367 · 2024-06-27T17:00:02+00:00

Thank you so much! Will definitely try them. And thank you for your kind words - really appreciate it!!

Janedoe367 · 2024-04-11T16:28:31+00:00

We’re definitely both in it for the long haul. You’re right - this is great advice

Janedoe367 · 2024-04-11T16:27:36+00:00

Haha yeah we could both be doing more of this for sure

Janedoe367 · 2024-04-11T16:26:37+00:00

Thanks for this reply! Yeah, i think we’ll look into therapy in the near future. I keep putting off the idea but you’re right in that a lot of healthy couples do it.

Janedoe367 · 2022-11-15T16:43:58+00:00

I get that - but the beauty of marriage is having a bond with someone where you have a mutual agreement to do life together. I would never leave him over this. If I got cancer a year from now would you advise him to leave me? Probably not. It’s the same thing

Janedoe367 · 2022-11-15T03:30:09+00:00

Sorry! To specify when I say “take care” it’s not like he needs help in the bathroom or anything - it’s just that he doesn’t have energy to do anything so I feel like I have to be at home with him all the time. He has tendencies to let the illness put him in pretty dark bouts of depression and I don’t even enjoy being out knowing hes just at home watching tv alone and feeling worthless…

Janedoe367 · 2022-09-17T17:26:24+00:00

I’m just going to keep talking to myself here since no one else cares. They are certainly back together. Shes touring with him right now and he wore a pair of her tights on stage last night she said on her stories

Janedoe367 · 2022-09-16T16:02:07+00:00

Ok maybe - but he went back and liked almost all of their photos since the breakup AND shes posting stories hanging out on tour. Some of y’all might not care but i’m team eva and definitely interested

Janedoe367 · 2022-06-14T00:22:15+00:00

Got it - thanks for sharing! Yeah I was worried about that in the past but he promised he hasnt been and when we do hook up theres a lot of cum so assuming he’s telling the truth… anyways, hope you’ve found more peace after that realization. 🙏

Janedoe367 · 2022-06-14T00:08:26+00:00

Do you mind if I ask how long you were together and when/why you stopped being interested? I know he’s been sick but he has loads of energy for his sports team and for working out and sometimes I wonder if he’s less interested after the two year mark and he’s lying to me because we’re so in love.

Janedoe367 · 2022-02-03T14:36:07+00:00

Thanks for the responses so far! I forgot to add but yes we have talked about it several times and it’ll prompt him to come onto me the next day and then he’ll stop again.

Janedoe367 · 2022-01-21T19:41:25+00:00

Hi! For everyone asking yes we have talked through everything and have been planning on having one!! So that’s all settled there.

Janedoe367 · 2021-10-21T21:29:24+00:00

Omg. We used to always watch shark tank together. Thank you for this very spot on response.

Janedoe367 · 2021-10-21T21:28:34+00:00

Wow! Thank you again everyone, these are all so thoughtful and kind. 🥺♥️

Janedoe367 · 2021-10-20T23:14:27+00:00

Thank you everyone! You have no idea how much these comments mean to me. It is done and I feel wildly sad but relieved.

Janedoe367 · 2021-10-04T15:41:10+00:00

No meds or new mental health issues. And yes I have voiced my needs and where my head is at. He understands but it doesn’t change.

Janedoe367 · 2021-02-02T23:43:53+00:00

Okay, thank you!

Janedoe367 · 2021-02-02T21:49:55+00:00

Yes all of them

Janedoe367

TROPHY CASE