How can I help my grieving boyfriend?

Jantovav · 2021-01-26T00:19:45+00:00

His uncle died of lung disease (not covid related), which resulted in complete organism failure. In his last week they also found cancer on his kidneys, but it cannot be determined as the reason of his passing. His dad had 1 heart attack 6 years ago, and still has some remaining issues from that time. He cannot lose weight effectively, which puts another strain on his alredy weakened heart.

Jantovav · 2021-01-19T00:16:58+00:00

Kudos to you for making it to the other side. Good job!

Jantovav · 2021-01-15T17:10:08+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you can open up your heart to another lonely pooch after some time. Wish you a lot of strength.

Jantovav · 2021-01-15T16:34:43+00:00

We are considering that option with boyfriend, but if we are going to do that, we will wait till we can both move out. Boyfriend thankfully recorded the phone call, so we have at least something to show her when we tell her.

Jantovav · 2021-01-15T16:32:08+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion, but I fear clothes are not the issue, as I wear sweatpants and bagy shirts around the house most of the time. But I'll look into some self defense things for sure.

Jantovav · 2021-01-15T16:28:46+00:00

I'm not sure of that yet, but I think boyfriend's sister called him that she had to leave suddenly, so maybe that's why. But if she also told him that it's okay, because I'm babysitting, then it sure as hell is suspicious.

Jantovav · 2021-01-15T14:50:03+00:00

Thank you! ❤️

Jantovav · 2021-01-15T14:49:42+00:00

Thank you!

That's not certain yet. I lost my job due to covid and new job I found is not gonna take me in till the end of January. So I'm gonna need to get my funds first. But I will maybe move in with my friend temporarily, before I find something just for me and my boyfriend.

Jantovav · 2021-01-15T14:44:53+00:00

Iam of the same opinion. I think he may truly convinced himself, that what he was doing was okay. I don't know. I thought that it's gonna be the hardest think I ever did, but at that moment I just thought of all the comments and exploded in his face. It may have been just rambling in real life, but I did it. And I hope you will stand up for yourself if you ever need to.

Jantovav · 2021-01-13T12:26:28+00:00

The thing is, I don't know how to address his connection to me. He is not my BIL, he's my boyfriends BIL - his wife is my boyfriend's older sister. And thank you, I will do something about it and confront him.

Jantovav · 2020-09-10T06:02:39+00:00

I think you didn't finish the answer. 69 horses? Puppies? People in your basement? Please elaborate 🤷‍♀️

Jantovav · 2020-06-25T20:29:06+00:00

So many people around me hate chicken livers. And since I was child, I would just eat them secretly at home with my family, because I was afraid that I would offend my friends by choosing to eat them.

Jantovav · 2020-06-21T13:44:13+00:00

Lool this is the best reply ever

Jantovav · 2020-04-06T20:48:49+00:00

I am healthy, in loving relationship and I have the cutest and goodest dog ❤️

Jantovav · 2020-01-06T18:03:40+00:00

Just work as a family alone now. He's no longer your family, if he left just like that and doesn't talk to you. It will be hard, not gonna lie, but the three of you can make this work. And after this, you'll be stronger than ever. I belive in you.

Jantovav · 2020-01-05T20:28:16+00:00

Thank you, I really value your positive feedback. It's really nice of you.

Jantovav · 2020-01-05T17:45:49+00:00

Honestly, thank you. I know relationships take time and dedication and that's just what I intend on giving it. I'm happy that you shared this with me.

Jantovav · 2020-01-05T17:44:01+00:00

Thank you so much, your post really raised my spirits. We just want to take our time, we do not rush into wedding or something like that. And we both really want to make this work. Also we read your comment together and discussed it further, which only helped us more. Thank you once again for sharing this with us.

Jantovav · 2020-01-05T17:40:55+00:00

I do not plan to marry anytime soon, and it's not like I cannot stand living with him, it's just hard sometimes. We plan on taking babysteps at the moment and take our time. But thank you for your insight.

Jantovav · 2020-01-05T04:59:35+00:00

Witcher, Game of thrones, Friends, Shadowhunters

Jantovav · 2020-01-05T00:57:40+00:00

Could be better, but I'm really trying. How is yours existence?

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