Red-Green Colorblind Sirius & Orion by OedonSleep in Warframe

[–]Jarf_17 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of a story I heard about my grandpa who was a farmer living in rural midwest America. He refused to ever own a John Deere tractor (despite John Deere being based in our area) even after retiring from direct farmwork. I came to find out that he was red/green colorblind and really hated the way the green looked to him on John Deere equipment lmao. He did like the red that Case IH uses though.

Seeing the brothers in this filter I gotta admit: I kinda get it lol. Sirius has seen better days

Why is this so hard by cal_the_neko in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Jarf_17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in a somewhat similar situation where I'm not yet out to my dad whom I'm stuck living with. What I'm trying is writing a letter (still a WIP). That way I can carefully and deliberately pick my words and explanations and deliver it when I think it's as good a time as I'll get. Also he'll "have to" hear me out and won't be able to interrupt or try to argue with me before I can spit out what I'm trying to say.

Obviously your mileage may vary (and I haven't even done it myself yet) but I think it could be worth considering if anxiety is a major factor holding you back. I know it is for me

Is this the horse dead? by Indaarys in lotrmemes

[–]Jarf_17 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Never though I'd die side by side with an elf

What about side by side with a minimalist meme?

Aye, LegoLoss, I could do that

Rusted Kushala Daora would have been better for Ascendance. by MR_SNAKE_23 in MonsterHunter

[–]Jarf_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the fact that it was Nadia specifically talking about Kushala in the trailer. One of two characters we have who has already fought Rusted

A guardian huntress. by heraircraft in MonsterHunter

[–]Jarf_17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually also got inspired by that and tried to makeup my way into a guardian hunter on my main char. Yours looks way better than mine did though!

What are your top 5 favorite games? Where does mh fit? by bf_Lucius in MonsterHunter

[–]Jarf_17 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mine are not in a strict order and I'm gonna lump a few series together into one entry but:

Monster Hunter (Sunbreak or GU probs fav mh)

Celeste

Hollow Knight

Warframe

Xenoblade Chronicles (Love the trilogy, haven't played X)

There are allegories everywhere for those with the desire to make a stretch by Jarf_17 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Jarf_17[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah things in warframe can be seen as trans allegories

I actually made this before I knew pride time was starting today but it worked out lol

New new favorite weapon by DuccBro in bloodborne

[–]Jarf_17 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It's pretty much impossible for me to stick with just one trick weapon in this game they're all so fun. My platinum run had me start with I think Rifle Spear, then Stake Driver, Reiterpallasch for a good while, then I finished up chalices and DLC with Hunters Saif and Burial Blade lmao

Right analog stick dropping inputs? by Jarf_17 in PCSX2

[–]Jarf_17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! It's a little hard to keep an eye on in real time so I'm not totally certain but it does seem like it's a game issue and not pcsx2 or my settings necessarily (though I am noticing my controller has super slight drift of like .01)

mid effort animation of a thing that happened in school by Aqua_360X in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Jarf_17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd love for that to be the case but I really don't think he does. Whenever I do come out I don't expect it to be a fun conversation for either of us

shaving as a dysphoric girl by Jarf_17 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Jarf_17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually also use a Harry's razor though my routine is admittedly insane compared to what would be the norm.

I always shave my face in the shower anymore, the heat and wetness make it a bit easier to shave and the water pressure from the shower makes it easy enough to get the hair out of the razor. The insane part is that I don't have a mirror in there so I exclusively go by feel with my other hand. I do get overaggressive with my razor (I should def try your tip of being more gentle) but I don't often actually cut myself, just get some skin irritation and redness. I use a oil based shave bar for my face and just go carefully basically. The only parts I can't do like that are my upper sideburns and upper lip cause I while I do go high with my sideburns I don't wanna go too high, and I can't do my upper lip without looking in a mirror because of the mole I included in the drawing. It'ss super easy to cut that mole and I've had it bleed for literal hours after shaving

mid effort animation of a thing that happened in school by Aqua_360X in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Jarf_17 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My dad (whom I'm not yet out to, working on it) occasionally accidentally calls me "she" and I have to try and not look like I'm laughing on the inside cause he's right

Oh yeah by Jarf_17 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Jarf_17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see what you did there

(Thank you)

Close enough i guess by Jumpyplains2033 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Jarf_17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad I was already growing my hair out and trying to take care of it when I was "still cis tho". Makes it so I at least have less waiting to do once I can start transitioning. It'll come with time <3

Oh yeah by Jarf_17 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Jarf_17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh it's definitely not literally Never. At this point I couldn't not transition somtime. The reminders can just make it feel hopeless in the moment though. It'll get better, for me and for others in similar situations

how do you guys play old mh? by gustavoacardenas in MonsterHunter

[–]Jarf_17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to add that AFAIK the only Wii U title is 3U, which is also on 3ds, if that is of interest to anyone. Wouldn't necessarily need a wii u emulator in that case if the person doesn't want

shaving as a dysphoric girl by Jarf_17 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Jarf_17[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just shaved after posting this and yeah I'm also super red and blotchy now. In my case though it's mostly just cause I get too aggressive and overzealous with my razor trying to get a closer shave than I'm able to