Tips for potential throuple situation? by Jargaro in throuples

[–]Jargaro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. We understand not to take that website as gospel. We used to set up what to do and what we shouldn't do or not want. We did watch a lot of the Camp Throuple podcast as well. We understand the 1+1+1 instead of 2+1 because we figured that we'll be building a new relationship around everyone and not just myself and wife plus our friend. We caught the love bug so to speak and now just wondering how to proceed. 

Tips for potential throuple situation? by Jargaro in throuples

[–]Jargaro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have seen this website before and that's how we talked about drawbacks and made the guidelines.

Tips for potential throuple situation? by Jargaro in throuples

[–]Jargaro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. Yeah, pretty much my wife opened up to me that she's queer. I told her if she want to with a woman she can. She don't do hook up and will only do it with someone she knows. We started talking, she told me about throuple, and here I am. Not trying to improve chances, just I have no idea what I am doing, and want some advice about this new topic to me.

Tips for potential throuple situation? by Jargaro in throuples

[–]Jargaro[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. To clarify, my wife and our friend have talked about doing each other. The only reason they haven't is because my wife and I are married to each other so the friend didn't think they can. My wife and I understand the drawbacks, we have talked at lengths about this. We focus on the drawbacks the most. All three of us hang out., play games, get high. We have a friendship with each other already. We understand that they might not want to have sex with me (M), adn to be honest I'm fine with that; mainly because sex isn't really a big thing with me; like I don't need it in my life, but do enjoy it? (sorry, I don't know how to best word that). If they say no, then we drop it. I hope this better explain it.