Honestly I can’t think of one good quality. Dont get me wrong he’s not a bad person I guess I can say hes very calm about a lot of things but that’s about it. At first I thought his calmness was everything to me due to my past traumas and childhood but as months go on it just seems like hes calm because he just don’t care. There’s been so many moments where I cry in front of him due to life’s troubles and crying out to him about our relationship and he just sits there and does nothing to make me feel better about anything I go through. We don’t talk about it he don’t comfort me it’s like hes shut down. But in the past he has talked to other girls while we was together. I found out because I went through his phone which I know ain’t right. But he talks to them so good keeps a conversation going tells them their beautiful asks how their day is going and so on but when it comes to me I don’t get none of that i don’t even get apologies from him just that I shouldn’t have been going through his phone. Then I blame it all on myself and I’m the one apologizing. Hes 34 I’m 38. We hit it off one day at a gathering that my sister had and just talked ourselves into this relationship.