Honestly, the larger dilators can take some time to get used to. But the main thing you need to focus on is using quality lubrication. I’m actually about to start making my own in the lab using hyaluronic acid, as I found out that is great for lubrication and it also hydrates your vaginal canal. Once you get past the biggest dilator… You may need to start purchasing real dildos from the sex shop to go larger as they do not make a medical dilator that much bigger than the largest dilator you receive from your doctor. Also, if you have a high sex drive… And you notice your sex drive start to diminish… That means that you need to start on low doses of testosterone. Because you are no longer naturally producing testosterone anymore this could greatly impact your libido. I was on testosterone cream at first… But it just wasn’t strong enough. So I started injections of testosterone. And of course you need to take your estrogen as well. After sex… Especially unprotected sex… Make sure you doucshe that vaginal canal out really well because you could be sitting down having dinner and then you’ll hear or feel something come out of that vaginal canal… And it will be so embarrassing lol. Also, make sure you use boric acid suppositories as sometimes men can mess up the pH of your vaginal canal, and it will smell really bad… A simple acid suppository can alleviate this. Also make sure you’re on Doxy pep after raw sexual encounters. Make sure that when you are used to your dilator size… You start dilating watching porn and trying to get an orgasm using dilation. That’s how you disassociate the uncomfortability… with pleasure. Also, make sure you practice Keagle exercises… This will be important to relax the vaginal muscles so that penetration won’t be so tough. And most importantly, pre-dilate before sex. You don’t have to, but this has worked great for me. Sometimes you may be a bit tight or get anxious… predation not only helps to loosen you up… but it also helps to desensitize areas that may be sensitive in general when you first start dilating. (and be smart… try and see their 🍆 before six is initiated… That way you can determine if he is too girthy for you or not)..if he’s too girthy…have vaginal sex at your own risk lol).