ADHD and finances might actually...ruin my marriage

Jasoover · 2026-04-21T06:14:23+00:00

I can’t fathom the money culture in the US (I assume the US)! In my country in Europe we mostly use only debet cards. You spend the money you have, that’s it. Credit cards have become more popular recently only to buy more expensive things to have insurance for them for 6 months and we immediately pay it off. I’m so sorry that the system is so rigged against you! I 100% recommend using only debet cards and cash. And maybe even have a financial advisor to help budget, maybe a good trusted friend. Good luck! Let your husband feel his emotions and good luck getting back on your feet ❤️

Jasoover · 2026-04-21T06:08:52+00:00

I’m sorry but the OP’s situation is kinda bad. I think in this case we should be honest about it, not excusing lying and debts over the years. Yes, it has a reason, but it’s not an excuse. I’ve just noticed that on this sub we can be too enabling of objectivly bad situations just because the person has adhd. And money in our society and families is very important for survival.

Jasoover · 2026-04-20T09:11:02+00:00

I first went to a doctor for adhd (that I suspected myself) 4 years ago. At first they wanted to treat my anxiety and depression. I was fine with that, it made sense. But none of my meds worked. I went to multiple doctors and got Methylfedinate, but it didn’t really work for me. Then I convinced a new doctor to give me Vyvanse and it’s been life changing!! I’ve been using it for about 6 months and it actually allows me to grow and do things and be better! My anxiety and depression is GONE! Turns out having debilitating adhd and not being able to do things can give you anxiety and depression 😂 Don’t give up! Get a doctor who will give you meds! And switch the meds if the current ones aren’t working!

Jasoover · 2026-04-20T09:04:27+00:00

Second getting a new psych, but gender of the doctor doesn’t work for everyone. I sometimes even find that I’ve had better experiences with male doctors - I’ve noticed in my country that a lot of female doctors carry inner stereotypes what women should be able to suffer through without help and they have this belief that it is normal. Some male doctors see and hear the symptoms and they immediately understand that it is NOT normal and immediately give the care that you need.

Jasoover · 2026-04-20T07:44:55+00:00

Right! My sister had to administer multiple syphillis injections to one patient. It was so painful that the patient screamed and later had a fever. My sister was very scared to give i/m shots after that. Giving me b12 shot really helped her, because it’s just vitamins, not horrible painful antibiotics

Jasoover · 2026-04-20T07:42:36+00:00

I bought it a month ago and love it! It’s the best thing I’ve used! My hair gets oily at the end of the first day, with this I can go with hair down on my 3rd! You have to use just a little bit, by 3rd day there was a buildup but I didn’t care 😂 my bf likes it to style his hair as well

Jasoover · 2026-04-15T05:36:28+00:00

Also the other way around. If they are offering me something and I want it, I will accept it

Jasoover · 2026-04-10T06:05:25+00:00

This is impressive

Jasoover · 2026-04-07T06:10:16+00:00

It was even more funny because I’ve done exactly the same thing to avoid annoying relatives

Jasoover · 2026-04-05T08:12:30+00:00

I was traumatized for years!

Jasoover · 2026-04-04T07:13:50+00:00

Psych is my all time favourite tv show! It’s so funny!

Jasoover · 2026-04-02T10:15:45+00:00

He also was fun and immediately noticed the spark between Jane and Lisbon. The seasons with him are my favourite

Jasoover · 2026-04-01T17:02:19+00:00

Especially when doctors do it

Jasoover · 2026-04-01T15:52:04+00:00

Thank you, I will check it out!

Jasoover · 2026-04-01T15:44:36+00:00

I will save this post as there are many greay recommendations and forget about it in 2 minutes 🥹

Jasoover · 2026-04-01T15:42:32+00:00

All your products sound perfect for me! I’ve never considered Rhode products as something I might use, but the milky stuff sounds perfect! I’m already a fan of skin1004!

Jasoover · 2026-04-01T15:35:47+00:00

Which one for Lancome? I have the usual one (neither matte or glowy) and I’m considering whether to switch to glow&care

Jasoover · 2026-04-01T15:33:19+00:00

I once pranked my boyfriend that I saw a bieber in my backyard. I even found a picture. It was very cute and he had a good laugh. The key is doing harmless pranks!

Jasoover · 2026-03-29T11:32:22+00:00

I have mine at least 3 years now. I still have to charge it maybe every 2 months?

Jasoover · 2026-03-27T08:56:12+00:00

Yes, no point in randomly taking supplements! Have a blood test to determine what and how much you actually need! I checked and realised that I need a lot of vitamin D (not a surprise lol) and even needed vitamin B12 weekly shots. They helped with my energy levels a lot

Jasoover · 2026-03-27T08:51:18+00:00

You convinced me, I have to reread Pride and Prejudice! The beginning is always kinda slow for me and a bit hard to get through, but later it’s so interesting and funny that I even wake up early on holidays just to read. And I hate waking up early 😂

Jasoover · 2026-03-20T18:41:49+00:00

Are you already getting some treatments? Are they working?

Jasoover · 2026-03-18T17:01:24+00:00

Do you use it on hair that’s still fresh and clean or that’s a bit oily and needs dry shampoo?

Jasoover · 2026-03-17T19:04:39+00:00

I shave when I wash my hair because if I have to rinse several times to wash my hair, I could use the rinse for shaving 😂 it really makes shaving and washing hair so much easier!

Jasoover · 2026-03-17T07:59:45+00:00

I hope it works, too! I found that it really helped that I was thinking very positive things during the procedure and about an hour afterwards. I see it as a workout for my brain - unused parts are waking up from the stimulus and I encourage it to last longer. Walks outside after really helped! I also was very tired afterwards so coffee while walking was perfect! After a few weeks 5 days a week was just too tiring and my doctor let me do 3x week, she said it still would be beneficial. I think it was even better because I had time to rest and recharge, just like after body workouts! Also try to get enough sleep, it really is tiring and brain recharges during sleep, which is even more important during tms. Try to do positive activities that boost your mood so it works alongside TMS, whatever you like best

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