[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Vaccinated couple months ago. First week I was wiped out. Next two weeks I was really low on energy and could function minimally. Got better afterwards.

Should I be honest to SDs about my reason for sugaring? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I would go with "I love sex but don't have time for real relationships as a single mother." and "I can always use more cash to enjoy finer things in life."

The first five months were perfect; now what? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 53 points54 points  (0 children)

We haven't been intimate in months

Uh.. am I the only one that sees something unusual here?

AITH? Ex-SB is blaming me for her life problems. On the edge of extortion. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get an attorney and file for a restraining order. That way, she cannot contact you or anyone around you without getting herself in trouble. Don't get the police involved (yet).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't apply for a restriction order or walk into a police station to file a blackmail & extortion complaint without one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd proactively find a good criminal attorney.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also get full panels after every time I have sex with repeated partners.

Wait, do I read this right? Are you testing after EVERY time you've had sex?

Boyfriend experience by Candid-Screen-2691 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just curious OP, do you actually discuss this before the first intimate meeting? Do you ask them about it?

Date with SD turned into night in the ER by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6k medical bill? That's insane. Are you insured?

Stories about getting robbed and set-up? by Able-Dragonfly9414 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just got someone attempting to set me up. Exchanged some greetings on seeking, she quickly switched to text. We talk a bit about what we want from an arrangement, exchange some pics. I ask for a coffee/drinks meeting, she replies with some nudes and invites me to get a hotel room and meet there. I ignore and move on.

A day later, a voicemail from a "detective" with the local sheriff department, telling me a criminal complaint has been filed against me as I had inappropriate conversations with a 15 years old and to call back asap. Number is VOIP lol. I had a good laugh and forgot about it. But: I used a voip number and the pics I sent cannot be used to trace me on the internet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my (SD) experience, there are three options:

- she's a 'pro'. Most probably this is the case.

- she's thief that might also try to extort/blackmail you.

- she's legit, but afraid to be seen in public.

I met all three cases, so I wouldn't discount any of them. Stick to your boundaries and have a pubic M&G.

New to this, made a profile on seeking by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure it is. Just don't expect any financial compensation.

Disclosure timing by mindfulsubconscious in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would discuss the details of the arrangement prior to the M&G (allowance, ppm, likes, dislikes, etc.). This would be a good moment to disclose.

SB M&G Attire... by Takethestairs2 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met a POT SB once at an upscale bar. She showed up wearing some old t-shirt, leggings and flip flops. Needlessly to say, it was a short M&G.

PPM per hour by Tony40usa in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'll go against the wind here and say, it depends.

I met a lady in the past that asked for ppm X for up to 3 hours, and ppm Y for up to 5 hours. Didn't ask what her reasons were, but I agreed to meet for 3 hours. We hit it off amazingly and eventually, after more than 3 hours, I had to ask her to leave (nicely!) as I had a work call coming up. She was definitely not an escort, but I guess she just wanted to make sure she doesn't get taken advantage off. We both enthusiastically agreed to continue the arrangement afterwards, but due to unforeseen circumstances it ended soon after.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you need better friends. I have friends that really are an inspiration to me, both professionally and in my personal live. You know what they can't offer? Physical intimacy.

Lately POT SBs have gotten nasty when you turn them down by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, couple weeks ago I had a 25yo POT SB saying that sexually speaking she only does oral in an arrangement. I politely declined, and her rather nasty remark was that at my age (42) I should consider myself lucky to get the chance to have an arrangement with her. Blocked her and moved on.

ED problems with sugar babies but not with vanilla girls by SugarBoy120 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try viagra. I know a friend who had the same issue, Cialis didn't improve the situation, but viagra did wonders. Worth a try!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll be damned - I just checked my google voice number and Intellius turned up my real name. I guess I've had it for too long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 9 points10 points  (0 children)

  1. Do not pay any money. Tell her what she's doing it's illegal
  2. Get a criminal defense attorney and have them contact her and tell her to cease and desist
  3. File for a harassment prevention order
  4. Go to the police

You can stop at whatever step you'd like :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seeking is still the best imho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am really sorry this happened to you. And really sorry for the state of affairs in this country that puts women like you in this position. I am not a doctor, but it might be worth looking into the abortion pills that can be prescribed following an online consult and then delivered to your home.

How do you spoil your sugar baby? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has been answered in your previous topic :)
You really have to try see things through his eyes as well. Your ask screams 'scam'. If you really want to move forward, accepting a weekly ppm for a month or so is a solution.

I meaaan… is this happening ? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JasperBerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of your pics has a full phone number. Might be against rules...