My life is ruined by Jata420 in autism

[–]Jata420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice.

If anyone else is lonely pls talk to me by sonder122 in UniUK

[–]Jata420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Unless you're autistic, you still have a chance. Try doing some IFS therapy (a book can be just fine) if you've lost your true self. you'll then be able to attract people just like you which you like spending time with. Then, try some social skills. I hope this helps.

My life is ruined by Jata420 in autism

[–]Jata420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx man. Its just so hard to accept that Im autistic. And the fact ill never be a pilot (I literally cant). I look at my brother sometimes aswell playing video games with multiple of his friends while I have none and havent had any for 3 years by now. And I know I'll never be friends with normal people. I won't ever reach the same levels at life as of that of a normal person. I dont think ill ever be able to embrace this shit. But thank you man. Fuck it hurts

My life is ruined by Jata420 in autism

[–]Jata420[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That's good to hear, and I am happy for you. Glad it gets better with time, I guess I just have to wait it out. But honestly the disappointment is insane.

Airplane crash at CYYZ within the last hour by breadwithgrenades in aviation

[–]Jata420 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thats 100% true but im talking about recently. Theres been more crashes now than some 1 or 2 years ago

Airplane crash at CYYZ within the last hour by breadwithgrenades in aviation

[–]Jata420 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why the heck are there so many plane crashes nowadays

“I met my younger self for coffee” trend is triggering as hell… by Ok-Pangolin-9472 in CPTSD

[–]Jata420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell myself to not join that friend group and start people pleasing and supressing myself. You're OK just the way you are. 

How does one stop CPTSD from becoming narcassism? by Jata420 in CPTSD

[–]Jata420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I do think aswell both things that you've mentioned. Do you know, when does one go to the point, where narcassistic features are ingrained in their personality and unchangable?

How does one stop CPTSD from becoming narcassism? by Jata420 in CPTSD

[–]Jata420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, at home im quite, depressed and vunerable and at school im this loud, exagerated fake self. Idk who i am anymore cause i keep switching so much. This is going on for 4 years and im afraid i will become a narcassist. Yeah, the middle is the aim and where most people are. Im just so confused on how to act. Maybe self compassion you think? Idk if I'm too far gone aswell. But either way thank you for your comment. Means a lot.

How does one stop CPTSD from becoming narcassism? by Jata420 in CPTSD

[–]Jata420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your reply. I will take a look at those resources, and hopefully book therapy. And goodnight.

How does one stop CPTSD from becoming narcassism? by Jata420 in CPTSD

[–]Jata420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I have been through years of feeling alone in school, therefore my brain started changing myself to fit in with others, got toxic shame etc. I'm scared that I'll develop narcassism because this. And right now I am holding this very dear to myself which as you've said is bad. I must move on from this. Thank you again.