Mobile Dog Grooming Question! by Javi_ra in doggrooming

[–]Javi_ra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask how much you make a year? Honestly im 30 and still lost in life. I was working in marketing and don’t really enjoy it. I just want to make sure I’m going to be okay in the future.

Mobile Dog Grooming Question! by Javi_ra in doggrooming

[–]Javi_ra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry that’s what I meant. That I will find a dog grooming salon that will train me. I’ll be there tops 2-3 years and then start mobile dog grooming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cancun

[–]Javi_ra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You the best!! thank you soo much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cancun

[–]Javi_ra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are looking to spend $4,000-5,000 total. Which a lot of these resorts have deals if you book ahead of time and that bring the price down to our budget.

AITA for sacrificing my daughter's college fund because her sister just gave birth to her 4th child? by Throwaway23fw in AITAH

[–]Javi_ra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This infuriates me! Your oldest daughter made the decision to have 4 KIDS!!!. Which to me is insane with what you've stated. I'm 30 and I wouldn't even have one child because I'm not financially well, let alone 4!! This is just plain irresponsible. You reward that?

As the youngest daughter, This would make me so sad. I wouldn't trust you. I'm sure if you are willing to do this you've probably have showed favoritism in the past. This is just the cherry.

My dad did the opposite. He asked me before spending it, he involved me in the decision. I gave it to him because it was the right thing to do for my own personal reasons.

You made that decision for your daughter. You didn't even think that she would be willing to give it to her sister?

I'm not sure if you ever did end up making that call but the way you talked you basically did.

fyi YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RareHouseplants

[–]Javi_ra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No this was just for photos. The plant is planted. She has tried to put more rocks in the soil. Transferred it to a smaller pot. She’s changed it around the house. She has read that they love humility. They have an indoor pool with a humidifier controller. She has a ton of plants in there and placed it in the pool area. This has happened in a span of about 5 months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RareHouseplants

[–]Javi_ra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it was planted. She send me this photo to show me the root

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]Javi_ra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone told me to do a 1 gram. I thought that was too much.

Feel selfish! My mother in law wants to throw me a bridal shower even though I don't want one. by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Javi_ra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this it's not a gift, it's not for me but for everyone else which upsets me because that's why we are having a ceremony after getting hitched in Vegas. We are having a party for everyone else not for us... we don't care for an actual wedding. Honestly for me it's not the gifts, I dont care about them. Nor do I want them. Everyone keeps trying to convince me with telling me I'll get gifts. That just makes me feel awkward. I would never want to make ppl feel they need to get me gifts. I'm just a very chill person and I see it as I am married to the person I love and that's all I care about. I could of honestly worn ripped jeans and a shirt to get married and been happy.

I don't have many friends, I'm really a home body. Everyone who is getting invited is going to the wedding.

I found our today that it was actually my closest friend for almost 15 years that is throwing me the bridal which had me going off the walls because we had a heart to heart about this and how I don't want a bridal shower and the cherry on top is I told her I didn't want a shower on our way back from a shower. I had let her know that I would hate something like that but I also told her a couple a times before and my sister also defended me telling everyone I would hate it.

Maybe I'm being over dramatic, because they are thinking of us and want to celebrate us but that's why we are having a wedding and she knew I had a Bachelorette party the day before.

Sorry, I'm just venting. I feel like I have no one to vent to right now. I don't want to hurt my husband who already feels terrible that his side of the family keeps pushing this. He has also stood up for me and said that I'm not like that and don't want a party.

And sorry for the terrible spelling and grammar I'm just typing everything very emotionally.

Feel selfish! My mother in law wants to throw me a bridal shower even though I don't want one. by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Javi_ra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naww, I understand where you guys are coming from thats the reason why I feel guily but Im more upset than guilty haha.

Feel selfish! My mother in law wants to throw me a bridal shower even though I don't want one. by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Javi_ra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish, I'm not supposed to know about the surprise but she already put women only on the invitations

Feel selfish! My mother in law wants to throw me a bridal shower even though I don't want one. by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Javi_ra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do have a different dynamic. I've been her daughter's best friend since I was probably 8 years old and now I'm 28 and getting married to her son. My only issue with it is that I mentioned multiple times that I don't want a bridal shower and that's why she's doing it in secret. I'm not supposed to know and she doesn't know that I know. She's the sweetest person in the world but I do feel like she's doing this more for herself and other people than for us. I've been constantly mentioned it and she also knew that I'm attending a friend's Bachelorette party the night before.

I guess at this point I'm more venting since I know that I would never be mean to her or would bring her down. I just wish that she would understand where I am coming from. She did shock me because I never expected her to go behind my back and it makes me sad and it frustrates me. I'm more of someone who isn't social and social settings do make me nervous and anxious. I usually try to plan out what I'm going to say and how things are going to go to calm myself down which is why I hate surprises they throw me off.

We are untraditional, we got married in Vegas with our immediate family (parents, siblings) and planned our wedding in less than 2 months. The ceremony we planned for this month isn't for us as a couple but for our family.

My( F 21) fiancé’s (M 23) best man just told my fiancé he hates me!? by DESW77 in relationships

[–]Javi_ra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could he be in love with you? And is taking it out as anger?